OMG please calm me down

kmcs317 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:33 PM

OMG please calm me down

Someone just please remind me that people are stupid and will have a comment/complaint no matter what you do. I know you can't please everyone and I think I was just spoiled that this wedding planning and everyone involved has been going soooo smoothly lately. Just got an annoying email from someone about the wedding...and really-we decided to do a destination wedding to avoid complaints!! NO ONE should feel forced to come and we made that very clear!!!!!!!!

OK, vent over.

But I'm still pissed!!

Espo22 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:34 PM

Re: OMG please calm me down

you just said everything that should've been said you will have your loved ones there and most importantly you will marry your best friend and love of your life that day. As frustrating as it might be right now, once the day comes then none of this will even be a thought in your head. Just breathe, relax and focus on the good things This too shall pass

bluekat16 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:35 PM

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Opinions are like a-holes...everyone has one. Don't mind them...just enjoy your wedding how you planned it.

kmcs317 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:36 PM

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Posted by bluekat16

Opinions are like a-holes...everyone has one. Don't mind them...just enjoy your wedding how you planned it.

That just made me chuckle through my tears....thanks!

JoesFutureWife Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:37 PM

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Dont listen to anyone else. Anyone with negativity who shares his or her negativity with you, is ridiculous. People always need to feel like they are the center of attention whereas they should just realize this day is about you and your fh, not themselves.

JTsGal829 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:39 PM

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Posted by bluekat16

Opinions are like a-holes...everyone has one. Don't mind them...just enjoy your wedding how you planned it.

very well said! AMEN!!1

TrueLoveIn2008 Posted: Oct 08, 2008 03:39 PM

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You know, I think we all hit some sort of breaking point around the one month mark. I know I did - my mom was driving me a little nuts. It will pass, and all will be well again in your world. Sorry someone made you cry ... that is NOT right ... but your day will be perfect, with or without tears.