OMG, so feakin' rude

Original post by ellebelle1

Jan 06, 2006 04:14 PM

On my friendster profile, I put a picture of my ring as my pic, like how it is in my avatar, and my supposedly 'best' guy friend (background, he hasn't done anything with his life since graduating from college, and is gay and can't meet anyone ever)...wrote me the rudest e-mail...

His e-mail:

subject: your picture is disgusting
e-mail: you've become one of those disgusting japs that we hated in college. Uhg, you make me sick by that picture..

My reply: It's only disgusting to you for reasons that do not need to be said. If you want an invite to the wedding, think before you type.

He's always been jeaous and rude (displaying it by obnoxious comments), but this really cut the cake, and totally caught me off guard. I honestly do not want to invite him to the wedding, unless he seriously apologizes.

Some people always try to rain on your parade.

Nina Posted: Jan 07, 2006 12:51 AM

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You have a beautiful ring and you have every right to show it off!!

Two words...SCREW HIM

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 08:15 PM

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update: So I wrote an e-mail to him explaining how off-base and rude he is, then he wrote me back with no apology, only saying that he shouldn't have put his values on me (meaning his value that a woman shouldn't show off a pic of ring), then didn't apologize, instead told me that he is my only real friend who will tell me the truth.. He is really messed up. He's always done stuff like this to me, so this isn't even just about this one e-mail. So, he's off the wedding list. I do not need a loose cannon there.

alioop4282 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 08:18 PM

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Ew, what a loser. Tell him to f*ck off!

werock0709 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 08:22 PM

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Posted by Nina

You have a beautiful ring and you have every right to show it off!!

Two words...SCREW HIM

I'm with Nina.... SCREW HIM!!!!!!!!!

Mrs. dleeny Posted: Jan 07, 2006 08:44 PM

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boy, that is some 'friend'

mskittynj Posted: Jan 07, 2006 09:56 PM

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aww hunny it doesn't sound like he's a good friend! you don't need enemies with friends like that!!!
XOXOXO
Kitty

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 10:27 PM

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Thanks This is tough one. I feel like I need to get rid of him. I've honestly wanted to for so long, but he kept drawing me back in. I think you girls understand this more than anyone else. A person's true colors come out when your get engaged. You always can tell who is jealous, etc.

xcalystax Posted: Jan 07, 2006 11:42 PM

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What a jerk! I would get rid of him as a friend on friendster...is will probably piss him off

beautyq115 Posted: Jan 07, 2006 11:57 PM

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Whoa...that was rude!

MrsStefan Posted: Jan 07, 2006 11:58 PM

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Some people need to GROW UP!!! I wouldnt invite him..he obviously does not have the best thoughts about you

waterspout4 Posted: Jan 08, 2006 07:46 AM

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Guess his invite can 'get lost in the mail'

jenheartsrob Posted: Jan 08, 2006 10:04 AM

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No need to waste money feeding this friend at your wedding, IMHO. amazing how people's true colors shine through when it comes to wedding planning....

Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Jan 08, 2006 11:28 AM

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that was very rude of him

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 08, 2006 02:28 PM

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It's so true. He has a guise of being the 'good friend' but really he's jealous and mean. This isn't even just about me, just last week when he insulted my ring on the phone, he told me that his brother just got engaged and his mother won't go their engagment party because it was in February and didn't like the cold (she lives in FL). He was mad about that and jealous because the girl his brother was marrying supposedly had money.

babybug631 Posted: Jan 08, 2006 04:18 PM

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I wouldn't invite him until he apologizes. That was a nasty thing to say.

ellebelle1 Posted: Jan 08, 2006 05:41 PM

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That's exactly what I'm thinking. I actually thought initially if he apologizes then, ok, once again I'll forgive him. But, he stuck by what he said. So, if that's what he believes in his skewed mind, then I'm planning to leave the friendship. In reality, we have nothing in common anyway.