So it's time for our first OMHQOTD (old married hag question of the day).
Sooooo... would you really 'do it all over again' if you could (with the same DH lol)?
As much as I had an amazing, awesome, and out of this world time on my wedding day, I don't think I would. I kinda like special events to have their place in time, so that they always stay special and magical.
Ok Celia-I'm nominating you for tomorrow's OMHQOTD, since it was your awesome idea to return here!
2010BTB
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If someone else would fork up the money I would do it again in a heartbeat! Of course with some changes though...cutting out more of the formal stuff and adding in some more party stuff!!!
Becca2010
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Yeah I'm with Lauren on this one, if someone was paying, I think I'd add in more fun stuff and definitely have a word with my DJ about some of the song choices.
I can't believe this still bothers me, but one of my song choices was Time of your life by Green Day for the last song and my MC was like, 'Oh that's so cliche, but we'll see.' The time comes and he plays time of my life from DIRTY DANCING. ARG!!!
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I don't think i would do it over again, honestly towards the end it becomes a little too overwhelming...im happy where we are and nothing is perfect the day off i had some issues with the limo but everything turned out beautifuly after...didn't bother me as much to change it or do it over again...LIke the ladies said if someone was paying for the whole thing I would but i would probably keep the money and use it for house renovations
little j
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im glad we did it...and more glad its done.
but honestly, to think of the amount of money that went towards that ONE DAY is INSANE!!!! so, i think id do something MUCH smaller and more casual with a limited guest list (60 people is more than enough)!
Moonmist09
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hmm... if i had to do it all over again, maybe i would, but like the OP said, only if someone else was paying!
Future Mrs H
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I would definitely do it over again. There would be a few changes but overall it was the best day of my life and would never give it back.
Oh my goodness. I have to think of a question for tomorrow.
kris_gets_hitched
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If I could relive the day exactly as it was, then yes. Because my grandpa was alive and I danced with him.
I can't look at my wedding photos because it breaks my heart that he's not here anymore.
Future Mrs H
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
If I could relive the day exactly as it was, then yes. Because my grandpa was alive and I danced with him.
I can't look at my wedding photos because it breaks my heart that he's not here anymore.
Awwwww Kris I am so sorry
JAAMS
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If I could relive the day exactly as it was, then yes. Because my grandpa was alive and I danced with him.
I can't look at my wedding photos because it breaks my heart that he's not here anymore.
I'm sorry
MrsSx2
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This time last year, I would have totally said yes. Now....its a definte NO!
MrsSx2
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Posted by kris_gets_hitched
If I could relive the day exactly as it was, then yes. Because my grandpa was alive and I danced with him.
I can't look at my wedding photos because it breaks my heart that he's not here anymore.
canmigs
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I absolutely would. But since this was my second marriage I really knew what I did and did not want.
Clover23
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nah... once was enough. although id realllllllly love to wear my dress again!! (as i sit here typing with one finger and a newborn bear on my lap....)
Lsorrent
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I would do it again in a heartbeat, but DH would NEVER I would make a few changes, and not be so insane or OCD about things, but yup, I'd definitely do it again.
Rosalind_75
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I would do it again. I had so much fun.
jhines4684
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I would just have a party with the same DJ and the same reception hall.
soontobecruz
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HELL YEA!!!!!!
I would kill to do it all over again. I already told DH for our 25 Anniversary I am throwing us another wedding and telling guests no gifts just come party! haha
AwaitingAugust
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i barely wanted it in the first place (my 'dream' was a small destination wedding but DH convinced me to have a traditional thing at an RH) ...
if i could get married again (to DH), i would do it at a destination ... but as others said, only if i wasn't paying
T E R I
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Destination Wedding, no big wedding all over again