On Avg how many times a week to you and DH/FH do the deed

Original post by SeptWed

Oct 26, 2004 12:40 PM

Be Honest!!!

eogara Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:27 PM

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Who are the two lucky dogs?? Come on, spill it so we can all live vicariously through you!!

Jan05Bride Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:28 PM

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Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

2003OCT10 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:30 PM

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Posted by eogara

Posted by Jan05Bride

I am hoping once I actually live with FH the numbers improve because right now they are little too low for both our liking!

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

I dont agree with that..

My DH and I were elated that everything was finally over witht hte wedding and guests, and all the drama... Our sex life went up after marriage... Then it went down... because he was working out of town.. Now that he's home, and theres so much stuff going on, our lives are back!!! (sorry if TMI)

Valentinegirl Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:30 PM

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And I though we were abnormal.

marymoon Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:32 PM

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Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

I have to agree, me and FH are in the first few months of living together....blah!

Oinker Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:32 PM

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I voted for 3-4 and I feel like that isnt enough! I am hoping that goes up when we get into our house... next week

Jan05Bride Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:34 PM

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Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

I have to agree, me and FH are in the first few months of living together....blah!

Alright now you are just making me very sad ... I was actually looking forward to candles and romance ... which has been kind of hard since we both live with our parents right now!

Valentinegirl Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:34 PM

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Posted by Oinker

I voted for 3-4 and I feel like that isnt enough! I am hoping that goes up when we get into our house... next week

Aaaallllllllright. Don't rub it in. Just joking lucky girl!

Oinker Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:35 PM

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It was like 14 times a week on the honeymoon

Jan05Bride Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:38 PM

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Posted by Oinker

It was like 14 times a week on the honeymoon

Now that's more like it!!!!!!!

marymoon Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:38 PM

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Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

I have to agree, me and FH are in the first few months of living together....blah!

Alright now you are just making me very sad ... I was actually looking forward to candles and romance ... which has been kind of hard since we both live with our parents right now!

No, I'm sorry! i'm SURE it will be better for you. My FH is a poop. I'm actually really upset with him about it right now. He just starte da new job and he works 11 hour a day and has a long commute..soo..

don424 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:41 PM

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Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

I have to agree, me and FH are in the first few months of living together....blah!

Alright now you are just making me very sad ... I was actually looking forward to candles and romance ... which has been kind of hard since we both live with our parents right now!

No, I'm sorry! i'm SURE it will be better for you. My FH is a poop. I'm actually really upset with him about it right now. He just starte da new job and he works 11 hour a day and has a long commute..soo..

don't be upset with the guy, take it from someone who knows, it';s not that he doesn't want to....he can't

if you show anger or being upset, it'll only make him less motivated----trust me

DebsNY Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:42 PM

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Posted by Oinker

It was like 14 times a week on the honeymoon

marymoon Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:43 PM

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Posted by don424

Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by marymoon

Posted by Jan05Bride

Posted by eogara

Don't get your hopes up too high!!

Aww come on ... even for the first few months of living together?

I have to agree, me and FH are in the first few months of living together....blah!

Alright now you are just making me very sad ... I was actually looking forward to candles and romance ... which has been kind of hard since we both live with our parents right now!

No, I'm sorry! i'm SURE it will be better for you. My FH is a poop. I'm actually really upset with him about it right now. He just starte da new job and he works 11 hour a day and has a long commute..soo..

don't be upset with the guy, take it from someone who knows, it';s not that he doesn't want to....he can't

if you show anger or being upset, it'll only make him less motivated----trust me

Even weekends though! *sigh* So i just have to shut up about it? I didn't know my man's motivation would be so fragile!

FeliciaDA Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:44 PM

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Posted by Jan05Bride

Alright now you are just making me very sad ... I was actually looking forward to candles and romance ... which has been kind of hard since we both live with our parents right now!

Noooo , don't be sad! I think given your circumstances, it will definitely 'improve' once you two are living together and on your own..living with your folks definitely hinders the 'how often' in a relationship.. it is bound to be very exciting and romantic when you are living together and married.

Don't let us old married or living together folks let you think otherwise

princess23 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:45 PM

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I voted for 5-6, since we moved in together it's a lot easier, and even with all the stress with wedding planning and buying a house, I try to make that my stress relief, it seems to work:

Jan05Bride Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:46 PM

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Posted by FeliciaDA
Noooo , don't be sad! I think given your circumstances, it will definitely 'improve' once you two are living together and on your own..living with your folks definitely hinders the 'how often' in a relationship.. it is bound to be very exciting and romantic when you are living together and married.

Don't let us old married or living together folks let you think otherwise

Awww, thanks. Poor FH ... he's really hoping he'll see some sort of regular action after January 7th.

Valentinegirl Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:48 PM

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Posted by Oinker

It was like 14 times a week on the honeymoon

You go girl!

don424 Posted: Oct 26, 2004 01:50 PM

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it depends on the week he had, i'm usually pretty good with weekends, but there are times i'm just burned out

trust me any complaints about frequency and performance are blows to the ego