Once and for all..

Suzanne....

I'm your best friend (let's just say) and I hear another mutual friend of ours say something nasty about you....
Would you want me to tell you?

I say yes...but that's only me...
I think that's what Tammy was saying (right Tammy?)...she would just want to be a good friend.

and for me - I would want to know...

Others may say no - but to each his own....

CHIPPA!! Can i use that in my defence on the peep thread???

exactly Sage LOL
hey, I like you


I would say..... so and so told me XXX but I dont know if it is true or not
just that they said it!

The MESSENGER is not wrong....

I am sick of the gossiper... I stay away from her..
Get off the nutt already...

No more clapping.. I LOVE THE CLAP!!!!! Comment!!!!!

Like MY Ron says..

'Don't talk about it if you are not going to be about it'

and we can see no one is being about it!

sure why not???

I use it everyday in life...i cant tell you how many times i've been in stores and have told people 'what wait a second can you repeat that I am confussed' and then I just smile....

Yes, thats true, but how many of us on this site are best friends? sure we are friends and aquaintences (sp?) that we have met a couple of times but thats it, so basically, its just hurting someone elses feeling and then these kinds of threads start..

I just dont feel like having to read about others personal drama anymore, i just want to be on here to have a good time, some laughs, and to meet nice people...NOT to hear about stuff i went through in high school

If you girls don't settle down I'm sending every single one of you to the principal's office!

This place really is like high school. Girls will be girls, and they will always gossip, but I just think it's so stupid already that T keeps getting this crap from people...get over it already!

There has to be more to life than yappin' about a girl you don't even know...I mean, we all do have weddings to plan right? Sheesh! They should spend more time talking to vendors than they do talkin about girls on a website.

no more clapping

what about mooning



or jumping

ok i am going to the post office..

i really am....

Well, this is a confusing thread.

I think all of this FM bashing of T is more than a little immature. Who cares what kind of bathing suits she likes or what kind of pictures she wants from her wedding. No one here has THE answer about the right bathing suit or photographs. In that sense, some people need to get over themselves and respect the fact that T swims against the stream. That is what makes her unique and (to a lot of us) tons of fun to have around.

But I have to wonder about someone who is repeating things that are being said to them privately. It is one thing to say upfront 'listen, that person is my friend, I don't appreciate what you are saying and if you feel the need to speak that way about her then you should not say it to me, becuase I will tell her.'

It is a whole different ballgame when you say nothing and then run and tell someone what has been said to you IN CONFIDENCE.

I don't know what the situation is here, but I would hate to think that someone I was talking to privately could not be trusted.

But I try to avoid saying things about people behind their back that I can't say to their face. Apparently some people around here don't feel the same way.

Sure you are!! your gonna need to take a picture of yourself there for me to believe it!!

ok know im gonna get flamed for this but felt i wanted to add...

when t posted a thread (no pun intended) about bikinis w/pics of women who belong in playboy

well its like asking for it IMHO

ppl will be ppl and if a person puts themself out there like t does (she is obviously confident, but still cares very much about what ppl think about her) then they kinda have to deal w/the consequences

Are you all laughing at my hubby's clapping lesson??? I will say, it made me question my actions a lot of time. It takes 2 to tango, I think its in that same breath. If you ladies keep laughing, I will not share another single lesson with you all

Angel eyes..

Kill me bc I strive for perfection and like to look good..
Those are suits that I have friends who wear and they aren't in playboy..

Why am I asking for it.. Bc I speak how I feel and don't always have the same ideas as everyone else..

Then I asked for it.. Which is hysterical !!!!!

But tell me to my face.. Don't go talking about it behind my back!

Then you are asking to be abused....

I usually stay out of things like this, but it really bothers me to think that there is so much gossip 'behind the scenes.'
If you don't like Teresa (or anyone else for that matter) ignore her, and get over it!
It has been my experience that if I heard something about a friend, I won't tell them, unless of course it is my best friend. Even then, I usually don't spill the beans, because what is the point of getting someone upset over gossip? Also, I don't know about everyone else here, but I don't know how many best friends there are on this site. Usually (at least in my experience), the person who tells you the gossip, wants you to believe that they're your friend, but they only tell you the gossip, to get your reaction, so they can go gossip about that. I don't know, I guess what I'm saying is that usually the messenger is the biggest gossip of them all, and they're the one you should worry about. Not those who gossip about you, but don't bother pretending to be your friend. Just MHO.

Shamma I like The clap......................

Come on!!!!


I don't like people who talk behind my back.... I think with all this attention I should be famous!

SHAMMA OH I LOVE YOUR LESSONS!!!