One of our groomsmen can't attend!:-(

kimandvin Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:02 PM

One of our groomsmen can't attend!:-(

OK.. So after planning a wedding now for about 14 months.... And chosing your Bp... I just found out that one of the groomsmen, A very close one to both of us cannot be a part of our big day!! HEllo it's 3 weeks until our wedding( I can't believe I am even saying that!)... Ok so heres the story... He just got into the FDNY academy YAY! for him!!!!! Im very happy for him.. so today he asked if he could have the day off for our wedding being that he has 'been' in our Wedding party since last year.. THey told him NO!!! That should not be allowed. it's not like he is asking if he CAN be in a wedding that is in a few months.. He's commited to this date and its not his fault that it lands on the day that he has the academy! What *&(**^*&&%^&!!!!!! anyways just wanted to vent because we don't have any other options!

SparkyandAng Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:04 PM

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Yay for your Groomsmen, but I'm so sorry he can't attend your wedding. He must feel terrible too.

kimandvin Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:08 PM

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He does... Im so happy for him but I just can't understand why they can't act like humans and let him be a part of our special day.. He is my FH's Twin brothers boyfriend ( they are obviously gay).. Im so sad.. Thanks for your comment!

kimandvin Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:09 PM

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AND BY THE WAY CONGRATS TO YOU FOR botw!

Butterfly123 Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:10 PM

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Thats terrible. I cant believe they couldnt do this for him.

kimandvin Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:17 PM

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Because they like to think they are all high and mighty and can control your every move for the next six months! ERRRR Thanks though!

Madorie Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:17 PM

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That's a total bummer.

Butterfly123 Posted: Jul 02, 2008 11:18 PM

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Posted by kimandvin

Because they like to think they are all high and mighty and can control your every move for the next six months! ERRRR Thanks though!

Is there someone else he can talk to??? Someone higher up?? Did he mention he's been a groomsmen for over a year now and everything is paid for??? Including his plate?? UGH Im so frustrated for you.