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One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

DomesticDeeva Posted:

One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

So here's a good one for you ladies...


My FIL decided 2 days ago he wanted to invite 7 of his co-workers. We told him no because it was too late, favors have been ordered, seating arrangements made, etc.

So yesterday I get a call from my BM yesterday informing me that my in-laws are there, requesting to pay for 4 extra people and asking how many people he's allowed to have because we weren't letting him bring extra ppl.



I am so embarrassed now to see my BM on Tuesday...I can't believe he had the balls to go there behind our backs and put my BM in an awkward position. I am beyond pissed, and FIL is being so insensitive. He said he doesn't care if his co-workers don't get favors, or that I don't have enough table runners and place cards for an extra table. OF COURSE HE DOESN'T CARE, HE HASN'T BEEN WORKING DAY AND NIGHT PLANNING A WEDDING IN 3 MONTHS, with a 5 month old baby at home no less.

At this point, I really just can't wait for this to be over..I'm trying really hard to stay focused on what the day is really about, but it's hard with all the BS that keeps popping up.
MrsCM Posted:

Re: One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

Seriously he needs a really good whack in the head with a pillow. Tell him if these coworkers were so important he should have thought of them sooner for starters. Furthermore, maybe just stick all his coworkers at one table or something but I know that's a headache.

I've heard FH a few times telling people that something isn't a big deal and I shoot him a look and he says 'hold on is it a big deal?' because they don't think sometimes.
DomesticDeeva Posted:

Re: One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

I agree, but I right now I'm thinking of something harder than a pillow.

I wouldn't care about adding the extra table, but I ordered my table runners already, and my favors, which are supposed to be at each place setting. Not to mention we already ordered and paid for our centerpieces, and I don't want to pay for another one. So if we add an extra table, it will have no table runner, no centerpiece, and no favors...how odd and messed up will that look...ugghhh!!!!
dazies1011 Posted:

Re: One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

WOW I cant believe that he did that.
Dr Meg Posted:

Re: One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

Your ILs have some set of balls! I wouldn't cave. Because honestly, he may not care if these people get favors, CPs, etc but I am sure they will care and it will make you look bad, not him.

JamDancer Posted:

Re: One week away!!!!!!! And the drama continues...

wow what did your BM tell them? Hopefully he stood his ground

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