4 more days before my FH leaves me to go start his new job upstate..I am soo sad, I wont be seeing him much anymore, he will be an hour and a half away from me , but at the same time I am happy because we are going one step at a time to moving upstate and starting our lives together upsate with new jobs and and new lives
jenn122397
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aww! although it will be a ittle lonely now it seems like you guys are planning really well for the future. Upstate is not too far - can you go there on the weekends?
zenergy47
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where upstate is he going to be working?
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You'll miss each other like crazy when apart but when you do see each other - you'll get that tingly feeling and everything will be perfect!
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He will be working in Ulster county...about 1 1/2hrs from the Bronx. Yes I guess I can go visit him, but I dont really like traveling that far on my own..plus Ill get lost because I dont know the area all that well yet. But I guess when I do finally see him it will be like seeing him for the first time
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it will be so worth the sacrifice for a little while and you have us if you need anyone
You are going to enjoy living there i used to live in Ellenville and it was so pretty!!!
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HERE HOPEFULLY THESE HELP SOME...
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Don't be sad! Think of it this way. Can you imagine all the pent up passion you two are gonna have when you see each other? In a nice way- all the sex is going to be great! WOOHOO!!!! An hour and a half's not bad. YOu guys can travel on weekends. Now you will have your evenings free to be on LIW! You always have us to give you some
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I know completely where you are coming from. My FH is a year younger than me and he is from upstate...way upstate in Watertown (By 'cuse) We met at school in Plattsburgh (by Montreal). I graduated a year before him and we had to do the distance thing. It was hard since i was always a 6 hour car ride away but we made it work!
LDR are hard work but sooo worth it when the other person is your forever!
BTW, we're planning on moving upstate too eventually. What kinda of work does your FH do?
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Posted by vmystique33
it will be so worth the sacrifice for a little while and you have us if you need anyone
You are going to enjoy living there i used to live in Ellenville and it was so pretty!!!
Thanks!...wow ellenville thats right around the corner...I actually saw a house there that I really like
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Posted by JIFFY
Don't be sad! Think of it this way. Can you imagine all the pent up passion you two are gonna have when you see each other? In a nice way- all the sex is going to be great! WOOHOO!!!! An hour and a half's not bad. YOu guys can travel on weekends. Now you will have your evenings free to be on LIW! You always have us to give you some
I was thinking the same thing Sex is going to be FREAKING AWESOME!!
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Posted by LoveGordonBennett
I know completely where you are coming from. My FH is a year younger than me and he is from upstate...way upstate in Watertown (By 'cuse) We met at school in Plattsburgh (by Montreal). I graduated a year before him and we had to do the distance thing. It was hard since i was always a 6 hour car ride away but we made it work!
LDR are hard work but sooo worth it when the other person is your forever!
BTW, we're planning on moving upstate too eventually. What kinda of work does your FH do?
Wow good to know im not alone .
FH is a vet. technician I am soo happy for him
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aww it will be tough for a little while-this summer FH came back to NY and I stayed in SC, it was a long 2 1/2 months and we only saw e/o for 4 days in between but it got easier after time-and when I got to NY I was soooooo happy to be back with him.
You will get thru it and its a step up for you both. Good Luck to you and FH
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you will enjoy it there its so beautiful, we go up in that area actually a little farther for hunting and skiing and camping.. its so nice!!!!
congrats to your FH and if you need a realestate agent.. my dad is one upstate.. he can help.. fm me if you want
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aww distance *****! all the more reason for you to take more vacation time and hang out up there with him! but you are totally right about it being a step in the right direction. it'll pay off in the long run
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You girls are all amazing! Thank you so much for the kind words you girls really made me feel much better