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OOooh, I feel so guilty!!

usuk2004 Posted:

OOooh, I feel so guilty!!

From time to time I google my ex. Don't know why, I just do. Well, nothing ever comes up, just old football crap. Well, just did it today and I found a mention that he got married in September!

I just feel so guilty now, like I've pried into his life...
heidla Posted:

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Don't feel guilty!!!! I got an email about 2 weeks before my wedding from my 'first love'. I guess he googled me and found out that I was getting married and wanted to congratulate me. It didn't bother me at all. I google people all the time. I think we all do.

usuk2004 Posted:

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Posted by heidla

Don't feel guilty!!!! I got an email about 2 weeks before my wedding from my 'first love'. I guess he googled me and found out that I was getting married and wanted to congratulate me. It didn't bother me at all. I google people all the time. I think we all do.



Yeah, but now I want to know more!
xjulietx Posted:

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I agree with Heidi. I Google people all the time. I even google my friends and DH, just to see what comes up.

It is not invading his privacy if it is publically printed and recognized.
bluegrl24ny Posted:

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OMG - I'm not the only one who's done this!!!!! Farah, I've done this too! When I hear about my old ex getting married, divorced, now engaged and running his own bathtub restoration business..... well I couldn't help but google him too - just out of curiosity. I actaully never found anything, but I felt SO guilty for looking - I was googling one time when Craig called to! I felt so adulterous!
xjulietx Posted:

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Posted by usuk2004


Posted by heidla

Don't feel guilty!!!! I got an email about 2 weeks before my wedding from my 'first love'. I guess he googled me and found out that I was getting married and wanted to congratulate me. It didn't bother me at all. I google people all the time. I think we all do.



Yeah, but now I want to know more!



More about his wedding? Well, you can start by looking up his bridal registries at Wedding Channel. I do that for random people I went to school with, just out of curiosity. Maybe they have a wedding website there.
hbradio Posted:

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Ive done this before and it seems like a lot of us do so dont feel guilty!

But how the heck do you find out someone is getting married?????
bluegrl24ny Posted:

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Juliet - good idea about checking the registries!!...... oh no, guess my morning is shot now Curiosity just gets the best of me sometimes, I swear!
heidla Posted:

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Posted by hbradio

Ive done this before and it seems like a lot of us do so dont feel guilty!

But how the heck do you find out someone is getting married?????




My ex found out because of this site!!!
hbradio Posted:

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Posted by heidla


Posted by hbradio

Ive done this before and it seems like a lot of us do so dont feel guilty!

But how the heck do you find out someone is getting married?????




My ex found out because of this site!!!




I guess he typed in your screename???
heidla Posted:

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Posted by hbradio



I guess he typed in your screename???



No, he googled me and this site with my engagement date popped up.
bluegrl24ny Posted:

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wow - that's crazy!

xjulietx Posted:

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Posted by bluegrl24ny

Juliet - good idea about checking the registries!!...... oh no, guess my morning is shot now Curiosity just gets the best of me sometimes, I swear!



I know, I spent whole lunch hours looking at people's registries
hbradio Posted:

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Posted by heidla


Posted by hbradio



I guess he typed in your screename???



No, he googled me and this site with my engagement date popped up.



Thats scary!!!!
RedHead Posted:

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Posted by usuk2004

From time to time I google my ex. Don't know why, I just do. Well, nothing ever comes up, just old football crap. Well, just did it today and I found a mention that he got married in September!

I just feel so guilty now, like I've pried into his life...



how do you google someone?
RedHead Posted:

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don't feel guilty ...it is just idle curiousity ....imo normal
xjulietx Posted:

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Posted by RedHead


Posted by usuk2004

From time to time I google my ex. Don't know why, I just do. Well, nothing ever comes up, just old football crap. Well, just did it today and I found a mention that he got married in September!

I just feel so guilty now, like I've pried into his life...



how do you google someone?



Just type the person's name into Google and see what comes up. Somehow through the years, Google has become a verb i.e. I googled it, I will google her/him.
RedHead Posted:

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and you can get info about specific people?

WOW...i tried that a while back and got silly unrelated things..

I am shocked anyone gets info about people they know!
bluegrl24ny Posted:

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redhead, I was never able to find anything about my ex when I googled him. I only found something on myself when I was in college bc one of my classes posted a group project on the school website. I guess it only works on people who have well documented lives?

Juliet - nada on the registry searches... it was worth a shot though!
Jax430 Posted:

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I google people all the time. Sometimes I find significant stuff, sometimes I don't. I've managed to find out what some old friends are up to. Glad I'm not the only one!

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