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OOT brides and your RSVP 's???????

shell1879 Posted:

OOT brides and your RSVP 's???????

what address are you using for your RSVP's?

we are planning on going down to LI as soon as my daughter is out of school (prob 6/24)and everything here is taken care of. that gives us about 2 weeks till the wedding......

I was going to do our address here but what if some come after we leave? The RSVP date will be around 6/10 so we should hopefully have them back before we leave, but i know there will be some stagelers.

Should I put my parents address on LI instead???
Jsquared279 Posted:

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I am doing my Mom's address. She is paying for the wedding and apparently that is proper etiquette. Whoever the host is, is the one who is supposed to get the RSVPs. If you are hosting it yourselves then in your case, I think it should still get sent to your parents' house. That way they will all be there and you don't risk loosing or missing any! HTH!
stephlovesseyi Posted:

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Im doing my planners address for the RSVPs she is taking care of those for us.

pandafish519 Posted:

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i would put your parents. then they can give you an update each day and you don't have to stress about it..

Im a Pepper Posted:

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I'm thinking that I'm going to use my mom's address in NY so I don't miss any of the RSVP's... Just in case!

LnF0405 Posted:

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I am putting my Florida address, I am going to NY the weekend before the wedding

megsher Posted:

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I'm putting my NY address, I'll probably go to MD a week before the wedding. Honestly, I'll be calling people about 2 weeks before that bc I want an exact headcount, and I'm not paying for no shows. I know you are supposed to use your parents' address, but I'm not sure I trust my mom's organizational skills , better if I do it. She is amazingly talented and way more creative than I am, I'm just more anal and organized.
BeachLovers Posted:

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Just to be safe I would use your parents, I would be a wreck thinking that some got lost!

VickiR510 Posted:

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iN YOUR CASE YOU SHOULD GIVE TEH POST OFFICE A FORWARDING ADDRESS SO THAT THEY WILL COME TO YOUR NEW HOME.

shell1879 Posted:

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the only thing i really worry about wityh my parents getting them is someone missplacing them or tossing them in the trash with out thinking.

shell1879 Posted:

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We are paying for it all ourselves so none of the parents names are on the invites... would it be odd to have the rsvp's going other than our house?

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