OOTers

You girls all seem to be taking realllllly good care of your OOTers.

I prob sound like a such a piece of $hit when I say this, but is it really something that is a 'must' ?

My mom hates that I don't care about the OOTers and that I've basically relegated any and all OOTers-related issues to her.

Honestly, I will take care of them once they start showing more interest in coming to NY - it is fairly expensive to do so (It is also fairly expensive to have a wedding in San Diego and invite my ENTIRE friggin' family)

I've had my hotel block since November of last year and only 2 or 3 people have booked... so I'm like seriously, you don't know if you're coming yet or not? I think they don't realize that it's not paying for it right now anyway. Oh well.. That's my mini bridezilla moment right there