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Opinion of BM dresses

Original post by divabride

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After PLENTY of disagreeing, my bm's and I finally agreed on a BM dress. Now the new arguement is between by Maid and Matron. They both want different dresses from the bm's. They will both wear the same dress, but just not the bm dress that we chose. So I wanted to have the BM's use the 'euro wine' color and have the two MOH wear the 'euro red' color. But they want an entirely different dress. I dont see this as being possible because I would want them to have a different top than the bm, but the same skirt to compliment one another. As you can see, not to many skirts are designed like the one below. So what should I do?

ETP - here's the color chart. Colors 3 and 4

DKA1026 Thread views: 1,314

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I also think they should wear a different dress, same color. I definitely would not mix euro red and the wine. I don't think this will make for a good color combo.
I know it's hard, but as some point you will have to put your foot down. You have enough to worry about. For God's sake, it's only a dress!! I have been a BM 8 times and NOT ONCE was I allowed any input on the dress. I was told what I had to wear and I wore it. And I never cared! They should just shut up and do what you want cause this is your day!!! Good luck!

bluetank Thread views: 1,314

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I love the BM dress. I was going to get that one. I dont know how i feel about the wine and the red colors together. How will that look inpictures?

MOBLaurel Thread views: 1,314

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If you do decide to do the same dresses, with the wine & red a good florist can incorporate those colors in the bo-k's to unify the bridal party. You are getting married in the fall and these are both fall colors. The florist can change the bo-k's to make them look different incorporating more white in the MOH's yet adding the other BM color too. There can also be changes to the bo-k's if they are different dresses same color to distinguish one from the other. Hope this helps!:

BriBri529 Thread views: 1,314

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I am having all of my girls wear the same dress that you posted in euro champagne. I am distinguishing my MOH through her flowers . . .

wc0143 Thread views: 1,314

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Posted by eogara

Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I wouldn't put them in the euro wine and red but thats just me...

I agree.

Another no to wine & red ... JMO

Marisa&Brian Thread views: 1,314

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WHY do they have to have a different dress ?? Is that what YOU want ? Or what they are insisting on ?? - How about they just wear what you tell them to ?? You're going to be sainted after this whole ordeal !
I went shopping w/ my sister (MOH) picked a dress, and told everyone where to go .....
Granted, I picked a black dress, but not everyone may like it ! - I have worn plenty of dresses I didn't like ! It's called being the BRIDESMAID !! NOT the bride !!! =)
Good Luck !!