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Opinions please RE: Facebook

xela Posted:

Opinions please RE: Facebook

So FH joined facebook a couple months ago and since has recieved a bunch of friend requests from random girls. Two were old flames and the rest I've never met before. He denied the x-gfs and says the rest are just old aquaintances. We've been together for 2 yrs and he doesnt even speak to these people anymore so I don't understand why they are popping out of the woodwork now. I just don't know if I should let this bother me or should I let it go.

Lsorrent Posted:

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Probably because he just joined FB. I'm friends with a ton of people on FB that I don't talk to anymore, lol.

AngnShaun Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

Probably because he just joined FB. I'm friends with a ton of people on FB that I don't talk to anymore, lol.



same here...
kimmaymb20 Posted:

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Posted by Lsorrent

Probably because he just joined FB. I'm friends with a ton of people on FB that I don't talk to anymore, lol.



DITTO alot of old friends from HS that I havent seen in 10 years some who I wasnt even really friends with
halfbaked Posted:

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I think you're reading too much into it. When FH signed up for facebook he got all kinds of friend requests from people he hasn't seen in 10+ years. It's the nature of the site.

Becca2010 Posted:

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I don't talk to a lot of my fb friends either, a ton of guys included.
I get a little jealous when a girl I don't know or a girl I know is whhore-ish writes on his wall, but I let it go eventually. Don't love it, but I'm sure that when my old college guy friends write on my wall, he's gets a little funny too. No biggie in the end.
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Posted by kimmaymb20


Posted by Lsorrent

Probably because he just joined FB. I'm friends with a ton of people on FB that I don't talk to anymore, lol.



DITTO alot of old friends from HS that I havent seen in 10 years some who I wasnt even really friends with



ITA. I have over 300 FB friends..alot of people request me..some from HS that i barely spoke to. i wouldnt worry about it
xela Posted:

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Posted by jilliibabii

I think you're reading too much into it. When FH signed up for facebook he got all kinds of friend requests from people he hasn't seen in 10+ years. It's the nature of the site.




I figured as much but admittingly I can get a lil jealous especially with the exes...If I were them I would stay away from an engaged xbf.
20mrsc10 Posted:

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Posted by xela


Posted by jilliibabii

I think you're reading too much into it. When FH signed up for facebook he got all kinds of friend requests from people he hasn't seen in 10+ years. It's the nature of the site.




I figured as much but admittingly I can get a lil jealous especially with the exes...If I were them I would stay away from an engaged xbf.



im friends with one of my exes on fb, and i denied one only because he was abusive

fh is friends with girls he hu with in the past..one of them is even a 2010 bride on here (she doesnt post much) and i see her quite a bit

i think real world friends are very different from fb friends
JayBee216 Posted:

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Totally don't worry about it! Just make sure his status says 'engaged.'
es2189 Posted:

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i'm friends with all of my exes on facebook including an abusive one (???? no clue why). i never speak to any of them. i really wouldn't worry about it.

Relish21 Posted:

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I'd let it go since it's probably innocent.... but I've stumbled upon incriminating tid bits in FH's emails in the past.


ginger812 Posted:

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i think if you're that suspicious and jealous, then you should really think hard about your relationship.

Nichole2010 Posted:

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eh, I wouldnt worry about it.

FH and I both have FB and we each have like almost 600 friends lol..we just add everyone that we have spoken two words to during our life. i literally had everyyyyyyyyy one whose name sounds familiar. im just nosey i guess lol

but yea, i wouldnt worry about it..



and Ginger, so the fukk away. No one here likes you. Come back and tell us when you get a divorce or something.
elp6421 Posted:

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Just let it go. TRUST ME I know how hard it is.

Once, only once, I hacked into FH facebook just to be a snoop and some random girl imed him and I was upset for like a week about it but couldn't tell him bc obviously he would know I was snooping. So I outed myself and he laughed and told me I was crazy. lol.

I think it is just natural but remember there is a reason he asked you to marry him!!
MrsH37 Posted:

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I think me and FH are the only ones not on FB yet
LandJ2bewed Posted:

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Posted by xela

So FH joined facebook a couple months ago and since has recieved a bunch of friend requests from random girls. Two were old flames and the rest I've never met before. He denied the x-gfs and says the rest are just old aquaintances. We've been together for 2 yrs and he doesnt even speak to these people anymore so I don't understand why they are popping out of the woodwork now. I just don't know if I should let this bother me or should I let it go.



I honestly don't blame you for being concerned, I mean that's why facebook annoys me sometimes because people from your past pop up out of no where. That's why one day I just cleaned up my friend list and took out people I don't talk to anymore and made my profile private. FH did the same thing, I don't want ex-boyfriends looking into my personal life... there in the past.
Talk to him about it...im sure its not a big deal
LandJ2bewed Posted:

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Posted by ginger812

i think if you're that suspicious and jealous, then you should really think hard about your relationship.




WOW! very rude.
Nina1010 Posted:

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I wouldn't sweat it. Most of the time, ppl are just curious... like 'Where are they Now?.' type of thing. I have a lot of 'friends' on FB, but don't speak to or see most of them. I network, many are co-workers or gamers needing head count.

es2189 Posted:

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Posted by ginger812

i think if you're that suspicious and jealous, then you should really think hard about your relationship.



you're actually crazy!!!! who posts things like this on public forums?? what right do you have to judge a stranger's relationship? go insult your fh!!

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