OPPS so now what?

So i sent out the save the dates and i asked FH to go through the list one more time make sure i had everyone... then he put the stamps on them so he saw them .... Today he looks at the list and says so and so is not invited because FFIL and him are having it out... i said i already sent him a STD yesterday he says i told you that they were fighting ... i am pretty sure you didn't but if you did i cant keep up with all the drama at your job we have over 40 guest from your job. You didn't specifically say MAKE SURE YOU TAKE SO and SO off the list, and you didn't say anything when you went through the list darling

so now what do i do just not send him and invitation that seems rude

I agree-
wait it out; see what happens; and worse case he might get the STD and roll his eyes saying he's not going anyway since he's fighting with FFIL! In that case check with FFIL if he still wants him invited and if not don't send the STD. Just my opinion :)

I would def wait it out.. a lot can happen by the time you r ready to send out wedding invites.. I wouldnt worry about it till it gets closer