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OPRAH: 20 ?s to ask b4 getting married.

ant n tilde Posted:

OPRAH: 20 ?s to ask b4 getting married.

20 questions - scroll down

i am having a life crisis and this just made it worse BUT it may be helpful for some of you!
cherish83 Posted:

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These are really good questions. I love #10. Hmm i could always use a bit more!

Autumn08 Posted:

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I really liked that! I'm guessing it's best not to discuss all those topics in one sitting.
beachbum05 Posted:

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my head is spinning....

I'm more of a 'take it as it comes' kinda gal!!!

beachbum05 Posted:

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Matilde, I just wanna SQUEEZE Brutus!!!!!!!!!!

AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

20 questions - scroll down

i am having a life crisis and this just made it worse BUT it may be helpful for some of you!



Matilde... I haven't even looked at the list, but don't let it getcha down.... it's Oprah.... she's not even married! What would she know?!?!
cherish83 Posted:

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Posted by AMGBride2008


Posted by ant n tilde

20 questions - scroll down

i am having a life crisis and this just made it worse BUT it may be helpful for some of you!



Matilde... I haven't even looked at the list, but don't let it getcha down.... it's Oprah.... she's not even married! What would she know?!?!



Very true!
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by cherish83


Posted by AMGBride2008


Posted by ant n tilde

20 questions - scroll down

i am having a life crisis and this just made it worse BUT it may be helpful for some of you!



Matilde... I haven't even looked at the list, but don't let it getcha down.... it's Oprah.... she's not even married! What would she know?!?!



Very true!



LOL thanks thats a good point ! made me feel better!
ant n tilde Posted:

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Posted by beachbum05

Matilde, I just wanna SQUEEZE Brutus!!!!!!!!!!





why thank you - i DO squeeze him enough for everybody though - he absolutely loves it
dancinmyazoff Posted:

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These are honestly great questions. It's interesting though because I answered all of these questions in my head but we've never like sat down and asked each other every single question. I think these might be the things that they discuss in Pre-Cana...or I could be completely wrong. I have no idea what to expect with that.

JSPocket Posted:

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OMG, the first 5 or 6 questions just stressed me out. And then I tried to picture the look on FH's face if I actually sat him down and asked him all this. Even more stressful lol

And Brutus is oh so squeezable
irishsweetheart Posted:

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Really great set of questions and what makes me feel better is that as I was reading through them I could recall conversations that FH and I had already had regarding the majority of them! It's just stuff that has come up when we talk about what our future is going to be like.

Espo22 Posted:

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Yeah we've talked about alot of those questions. I was watching oprah, he was in the room just doing other stuff. And it was about couples who had financial problems and they had a financial advisor helping them. Just about all of this came up. So of course everything they brought up, I would ask him about it.

Autumn08 Posted:

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When I first got engaged someone asked me if I considered pre-marital counseling. I was like huh? I don't belong to a church (although I am spiritual) but I had no idea what this was. He told me that his church requires it before you get married. These are all topics dicussed during sessions.

SoontobeMrsH Posted:

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soo good, saved to my notebook

Collweenie21 Posted:

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WOAH! Thats deep!! But we pretty much gone over most of it.. I guess
cherish83 Posted:

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These are also questions that i've thought about but mostly never discussed with FH. I think i'll have him sit down with me and discuss them. It is good to talk about them and probably write down everything discussed that way the possibility of an argument down the road is avoidable.. well somewhat avoidable.

megzzie Posted:

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Great questions! FH and I have discussed a lot of the situations that are asked about, but Oprah does bring up some good points.

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