our reply by date was 4 days ago

pschica Posted: Oct 11, 2003 09:33 AM

our reply by date was 4 days ago

still waiting on 36 cards...ergh....

franksbride Posted: Oct 11, 2003 09:53 AM

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Oooohhhh...that many left to get? I have a feeling I may need that many left too come 11/3...my response cards have been coming in drips and drabs...I was so upset one day last week when I didn't get any!

What are you going to do? Call them? I think that stinks...because it's like, Ok, I sent you an invitation with an envelope with a stamp on it...so now I also have to call you and ask if you're coming???

I don't want to call anyone who doesn't send the RSVP card back...

pschica Posted: Oct 11, 2003 11:07 AM

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we are going to give them until next thursday then the phone starts ringing - we plan on leaving messages during the day first not to embarass anyone....

oh, and i should add - my moh (sister), our bm, 2 bms and 1 gm are in the bunch still that haven't retunred (some lied and said they mailed trhem - but others 'haven't decided' whether or not to bring a date yet....lol...when will they decide the night beofre??

franksbride Posted: Oct 11, 2003 01:16 PM

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Only two of my BMs have responded...and they're my sisters...none of my friends or cousins who are BM's have .

I will probably do the same as you and call them during the day and leave messages for them...it's so annoying that we'll have to do this.

pschica Posted: Oct 12, 2003 10:10 PM

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phooey - no mail today b/c its sunday - is there mail 2morrow for columbus day??

jennbaby Posted: Oct 12, 2003 10:11 PM

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ummm i got responses up untill 3 days before

Mich1108 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 08:30 AM

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pschica,
No mail today for Columbus Day
My RSVP date is in 2 days & I'm still waiting for like 80 people

regina2 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 12:53 PM

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I didnt get an RSVP from a girlfriend of mine, I called her last Thursday morning. She was running out the door. So I asked if she was coming to the wedding or not. She said she still had a few more days to respond and I told her the RSVP was supposed to be in last week. She went thru this whole thing about how her stepson wants to go this party..blah blah.

And she wasnt sure if she could make it. I told her to give me a call when she got home from her appt. that was last Thursday and I still have not heard from her. What is up with that? If you dont want to come just say so, and dont blame it on a seven year old.

And the least you can do is either call me back or stick the RSVP card in the mail after I just called you looking for it!!!!!

pschica Posted: Oct 13, 2003 01:11 PM

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thats crazy! i have a firend who didn't know if she was bring ning a date - ok, but i aksed you three times to send it back - well she is bp and thinks she doesn't need to - well, today she emails me (yup, another one for my email rsvp inbox!!) to say put her down for two.....

Mich1108 Posted: Oct 13, 2003 02:49 PM

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I'm waiting for people who don't know if they're bringing someone too! Geez, the wedding is less than a month away, if you don't know by now if you're bringing someone, do you really think you're going to miraculously meet someone between now & then that's going to change your single status? It is soooo annoying!

krwm Posted: Oct 13, 2003 03:31 PM

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mine was the 1st and I'm still waiting on about 15 people. Not too bad but really ANNOYING

pschica Posted: Oct 16, 2003 09:39 PM

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yup, still waiting - my sister claims to have mailed it a week ago - um, how pigeon or thru japan...she is notorious for this - no one ever gets her rsvps - it just sucks b/c fh andi wanted to save all them and now a bunch wil be mising - including hers!!