ok, if a guy in your office, who is married, asks you out to lunch, and he's a nice guy, friendly to you, etc, would you go? I know he is just being friendly, but he is always around and we don't sit anywhere near eachother.
Also, I always think, if my FI asked a girl to lunch I would be like,'what the f---k? why do you need to take her to lunch?'
Am I thinking too much?
Sonicstef
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I would definitely go. There is nothing wrong with 2 coworkers going to lunch.
jenny2penny
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There is nothing wronge with it,,but I wold have to be honest and would not like my FH going out to lunch with another girl
Snowboardgirl
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thats my point. I think I will go, but, I just feel a little weird about it.
HeatherandNick
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I wouldn't go. I would not want my Dh to go out to lunch with a female co-worker, so I wouldn't do it. If it was a group - the I think that is justifiable, but not alone - JMO
jenny2penny
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if you feel bad about it, then don't. How do you think he would feel, when you told him your day. If you ned to lie, then don't do it. Not worth it.
Snowboardgirl
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I can understand if we sat near each other and talked all day, so we went out for a bite, or got a sandwich and brought it back, or started going out in a group, but for him to be all at my desk asking me specifically to 'go out to lunch sometime'? I don't know.
Snowboardgirl
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if I told him, which I would, he would be a little jealous. But he holds that stuff in.
alina
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Why is it a problem for either FH or you to go out to lunch with a coworker of another sex? I would think you trust him by now. And as for you, you have the e-ring on, right!!! Solves the problem...
