So yea, I am away for work and bummed out, its cold and my FH is with all of our friends at a superbowl party. usually he calls me multiple times when he is off but I feel like I had to track him down today, I got 2 text messages in 4 hours and I had to call him. I am mad,,, I know its my 'fault' that I am at work away, but come on! am I wrong....
Jasonsgirl
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No you are not wrong. Feel better!
Kimbalina
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thank you.
Ilovebriani
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aw, i would not worry! it is hard when you are away like that, not knowing where he is/what he is doing.....i used to get like that from time to time as FH and were in a long distance relationship for about 4 years.....it may bot seem like much,but at least he texted you a few times, he is prob caught up into the game/party etc. i am sure once it winds down he will give you a call and the attention will be on you!
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Ugh,,, I KNOW he is not doing anything 'bad', and I havw nothing to worry about, but if the shoes were on the other feet,,, he'd have a problem
DavaDay
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The Superbowl is SUCH a big deal for sports fans, and it only comes once a year. It doesn't mean he's neglecting you - let him have his one day, and tomorrow, things will be back to normal.
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Ugh,,, I KNOW he is not doing anything 'bad', and I havw nothing to worry about, but if the shoes were on the other feet,,, he'd have a problem
yeah i know what you mean...it is just nice to be acknowledged once in a while...trust me, i totally understand...i have been there before, but he usually dosnt get why i am upset about it.
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Ugh,,, I KNOW he is not doing anything 'bad', and I havw nothing to worry about, but if the shoes were on the other feet,,, he'd have a problem
yeah i know what you mean...it is just nice to be acknowledged once in a while...trust me, i totally understand...i have been there before, but he usually dosnt get why i am upset about it.
to add on to what i said...guys just see things differently then us girls i think. i honestly think he prob dosnt realize that this is bothering you right now.
Kimbalina
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TRUE.... ugh!!! I just got annoyed,, but you are right it is once a year
Autumn08
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Superbowl is a big deal and he's probably involved in the game and what not. Just think... the season is over! We get our men back!
Kimbalina
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My FH is not a football fan, although I know that he is hanging with our entire BP!!! maybe i am a bit jeaous
JeanetteandSteve
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i know how that feels. i have to go away for work a few times a year for weeks at a time and i HATE it, b/c i'll call and he'll be out having fun with friends and i'm stuck in a hotel by myself. but try and cheer up. you'll be back soon, right? and as you said, you know he wasn't doing anything bad. he was hanging out with your friends and you just wish you were there too. it's only natural.
feel better, and i hope your work is finished soon so you can get home to him!!
Kimbalina
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LOL,,, thankyou ladies,,, I do feel a bit better. I guess the cold snap made me snap!
Kimbalina
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alright, we are cool. I feel better and he was just caught up, and didnt want me to feel bad for not being there.
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I know it ***** but when guys watch football they're in another world...Sometimes i do the same not with football lol, but i'll be out (which i havent done in a while ) with friends and we'll be busy talking or whatever and i dont wanna sit there and in the middle of conversations or whatever stop to call...Especially when you dont see your friends that often and its like the time you spend with them you dont want to spend your time calling your FI when they know you spend all your time with them...Its nothing bad at all, and he is not doing anything on purpose, but yeah it still ***** i know.
FH is in vegas now, and infact in 13 mins its his birthday but i cant complain i bought him the trip with his friends for x-mas lol...I dont get to spend his birthday with him, we are celebrating both of our b-days this weekend coming up but still
Kimbalina
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Aww, Denise Happy early Bday! I am sorry that you are in my boat! LOL
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Aww, Denise Happy early Bday! I am sorry that you are in my boat! LOL
Its his birthday, and thanks, yeah i just got real sad now bc its almost midnight and i wanna say happy birthday but i cant even do that...He slept at my house the night before, we woke up late the morning he left and rushed out and he forgot his charger, theyre all out now and his cell phone died last night finally...I text his friend to tell him to call me but lets see if his friend gets it soon, they are out in a club
Thanks, its ok i guess we'll still get to celebrate soon
Kimbalina
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Aww,, call all his friends!!
Thanks for everyones kind words, goodnite!
cherish83
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I wouldnt get to worked up over it.. It is superbowl sunday after all. Its a big day for men.. blah..I'm sure if it were any other day he would be calling as much as he normally does.. I understand why you would feel that way, but honesly dont let it get you down
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Aww I would not worry I am sure he was just caught up in all the excitement of the game and all.
