overwhelmed

overwhelmed

I am really feeling overwhelmed about how I am going to pay off this wedding. I have been so good, not buying anything for me and just for this wedding. I am making a list of all the stuff I have bough so far. I am just really worried and stressing like crazy. I wish I had time for a second job. I have to kick in some more overtime at work. ahhahaahhhhhhhh sorry needed to vent

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It's totally understandable...I kinda feel the same way. Luckily for me my Mom, FH, FMIL and I are all contributing to the wedding...but it is still a pain in the butt

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it is very overwhelmin this christmas we are going to just ask for cash to help

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oh god tell me about it!!!!!!

i hear ya....dont feel bad, im pretty much the only one saving right now and its tough!!!!
let it out...vent!!! i did and now im feeling alittle better until........the next time!!!

heres a huggy!!!

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I think all of us feel that way! It's a lot of money and a lot of time planning!!! Very expensive in both aspects!! I just signed up for another school loan for 10K! I wanna throwup! You'll get through it and in the end, it will all be worth it!

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I totally understand. A friend of mine who got married 2 years ago gave me a great piece of advice........DO NOT look at how much you're spending as a whole. She said she did this an it caused her many a panic attack. If you just look at it like, 'I have to pay the catering hall $1000 this month' it's a little less overwhelming.

This is not to say that you shouldn't set an overall budget, but it way less overpowering if it is looked at in 'smaller' payments!!!!

HTH

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I totally understand where you're coming from I just got done saying something to my fh about where we are coming up with money

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It is extremly overwhelming and I get crazy thinking of all the money that we are spending but don't worry everything will fall into place and you'll find the money and the day will be perfect. That is what I keep telling myself.

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I had to take on a 2nd job.. I now work 7 days a week and although I am tired.. I am not feeling burnt out.... YET!!! But I know it's for a good cause and itwill work out.. it always does..

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I got a second job to help pay for the wedding... It is very overwhelming!

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It is hard....take a deep breath everything will work out.

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