overwhelmed

overwhelmed

I am extremly overwhelmed. I have so much to do, my job is making me crazy. I am so busey after work with appt after appt for this wedding. My FH does nothing at home and he has the nerve to make a comment about the fact that I ran out of jelly to make HIM a sandwich for lunch. I make his breakfast, his lunch and dinner. I can't take it any more. I want to scream really loud and then cry. I just cant handle all of this. 34 days left and i am losing my mind. sorry needed to vent. thanks for listening

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awwwww...we all know that feeling! Dont worry everything will be great...just dont get upset!

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Believe me, I can totally identify with what you are saying. While I am also trying to figure out the best way to handle this, so I don't have any words of wisdom for you, all I can say is I totally understand and you are not alone. Hang in there!

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So Sorry....
I can't imagine making my FH breakfast nor lunch...
You're a better person
It'll get easier soon! (with the appts: I can't tell you anything about cooking/preparing food).

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I feel the same way. Between the wedding stuff and moving into an apt. its too much and I dont even work in the summers so I give you so much credit. Jus think a month left of this madness!

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You're a much better person than I am making your FH all his meals! and you have every right to be frustrated! But it's almost over! hang in there!!!!

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So sorry you are feeling this way!!! A month before the wedding is when i started losing it too...it gets better...i swear!!!! Kick Fh in the butt & tell him to pitch in...mine saw i was losing it and started doing all the laundry to help..and it did!!

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Aww try to relax! Does FH help with the wedding plans? Your so good you make him all his meals! He needs to realize that with working a FT job and the wedding being so close he may need to fend for himself a bit till the wedding is over.

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Hang in there all will work itself out.

Hey you can't do everything yourself and marriage is 50/50 afterall. I have to remind my FH that he needs to help out when he's not. He gets is when he has to do all the laundry and cook. I love it when he says whew I'm tired and need a nap.

I say a nap oh no honey the bathroom is next.
I have a full time job too, so a gentle reminder is worth it.

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i feel the same way!!

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thanks for the support girls, its just a really tough time right now and I need to stay positive and try to relax.

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I think the closer we all get, the more we are losing our minds. Hang in there and know that you're not alone!!

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AW Irene!!!!! Slow down, work is work, but FH needs to realize all you are doing. Don't cry, talk, to him. Let him know you are feeling a bit overwhelmed and it would help you if helped out a bit!!! Sorry hun, feel better FM if you need to talk

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Irene, sorry you are so stressed. FH has to pitch in. You spoiled him by doing so much. Make sure you immediately break the habit. Good luck. It will all work out.

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I'm in the same boat. I'm in debt from this wedding and I'm not even paying for much of it. I keep thinking how much I'm gonna owe people and it's crazy plus Fh lost his job and its killing us. I'm so stressed