ok so first it was getting the call that my dress is in. now i just got home from getting my invitations & as i was going through them i'm thinking imagine if hardly anybody comes i feel myself getting so panicky. i'm become such a scatterbrain. i swore to myself i wasn't going to get this way.
i know its probably going to get worse when the invitations go out.
anybody else go through this
MrsG
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Yes, very much. At the end of a day of major wedding planning, I have panic attacks. It's tough to calm down, I think, and I can't adjust. Maybe try doing something deliberately, like take a bath or watch a movie, to take yourself out of planning mode.
I will try to take my own advice. But You Are Not Alone! It's probably normal.
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i think it wouldn't be normal if you didn't feel that way from time to time...does that make sense? i'm sure you will have nothing to worry about when its all said and done.
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Posted by MrsG
Yes, very much. At the end of a day of major wedding planning, I have panic attacks. It's tough to calm down, I think, and I can't adjust. Maybe try doing something deliberately, like take a bath or watch a movie, to take yourself out of planning mode.
I will try to take my own advice. But You Are Not Alone! It's probably normal.
i know up until now.. i kept saying oh i have time !! not anymore... everybody was right after the holidays.. days are flying by. every call i get at work is wedding related well almost .
MrsG
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Me too. And the scatterbrain thing...I have stories.
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i know im like what if nobody comes. i have stupid nightmares. its horrible! i just want the wedding to come and not worry and have a good time!!!
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i know im like what if nobody comes. i have stupid nightmares. its horrible! i just want the wedding to come and not worry and have a good time!!!
i'm telling you i started having heart palpitations as i was going through the invites saying to myself if nobody comes ! having nighmares too about my hair frizzing ..
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i know im like what if nobody comes. i have stupid nightmares. its horrible! i just want the wedding to come and not worry and have a good time!!!
i'm telling you i started having heart palpitations as i was going through the invites saying to myself if nobody comes ! having nighmares too about my hair frizzing ..
i know did you send out your invites yet? i have nightmares about shoes, bc i havent gotten them yet and also about my hair.... i didnt have my tiral yet
kimnsteve
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i love the planning ..the only thing i am stressed about is having enough money for everything
shoegal68
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i know im like what if nobody comes. i have stupid nightmares. its horrible! i just want the wedding to come and not worry and have a good time!!!
i'm telling you i started having heart palpitations as i was going through the invites saying to myself if nobody comes ! having nighmares too about my hair frizzing ..
i know did you send out your invites yet? i have nightmares about shoes, bc i havent gotten them yet and also about my hair.... i didnt have my tiral yet
not yet... i plan on sending out the middle of february. we have an RSVP of march 25
don't feel bad. haven't had a hair trial yet. i know the girl who is doing it & have an idea of what i want.
you should try sandy's shoes. heard they have a wide selection
good luck
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Same here... I knew after the holidays I would start to feel a little crazy! My dress has been in for 2 weeks and I haven't gone to see it yet... my BM's dresses came in on Tuesday, I booked my hair stylist, we booked our HM, the invitations came on Monday (to my parents' house so I still haven't seen them!) and Sunday is our last pre-cana session... it's all starting to happen so fast!!