Sorry you have to deal with this...sometimes its hard for parents, especially dads to let their baby go. I'm sure he'll learn to accept it and become supportive of your wedding.
Thanks ladies. I hope so! I will talk to him maybe next week when things calm down. I just hope my parents come on board and are a part of this exciting important part of my life!
Eventually he will come to terms with it. Good Luck!
I just hope before the wedding!
Definitely have a talk with your dad. Do your parents have an issue with FH before you got engaged?
I talked to him yesterday and he was like happy with himself how nasty he was. I said you have to be more sensitive to my feelings. He said I have to be sensitive towards him. He doesn't want me marrying him. My father and I are close and he said we fight only because of George. So I take him out of the picture and we will be fine. Really? Hello he is going to be my husband that is not going to work! George asked my father for his blessing before he proposed! He received it! My dad is traditional and believes a man s suppose to take care of his woman. It was fine when I was a tech and in school but now that I'm s nurse things have changed. I feel bad for my fh because he doesn't want to make a wedge between my family and hes put up with so much crap from them and to have to deal with this now. Sorry I'm unloading!
Posted by Bride2012
I talked to him yesterday and he was like happy with himself how nasty he was. I said you have to be more sensitive to my feelings. He said I have to be sensitive towards him. He doesn't want me marrying him. My father and I are close and he said we fight only because of George. So I take him out of the picture and we will be fine. Really? Hello he is going to be my husband that is not going to work! George asked my father for his blessing before he proposed! He received it! My dad is traditional and believes a man s suppose to take care of his woman. It was fine when I was a tech and in school but now that I'm s nurse things have changed. I feel bad for my fh because he doesn't want to make a wedge between my family and hes put up with so much crap from them and to have to deal with this now. Sorry I'm unloading!
Posted by Bride2012
I talked to him yesterday and he was like happy with himself how nasty he was. I said you have to be more sensitive to my feelings. He said I have to be sensitive towards him. He doesn't want me marrying him. My father and I are close and he said we fight only because of George. So I take him out of the picture and we will be fine. Really? Hello he is going to be my husband that is not going to work! George asked my father for his blessing before he proposed! He received it! My dad is traditional and believes a man s suppose to take care of his woman. It was fine when I was a tech and in school but now that I'm s nurse things have changed. I feel bad for my fh because he doesn't want to make a wedge between my family and hes put up with so much crap from them and to have to deal with this now. Sorry I'm unloading!
I think thats the trust. In my father eyes no one will ever be good enough. My fh was there because we were exciting in telling them the news. Funny part I didn't even get the chance to tell them where and when. I'm sure in a few weeks things will be different. My parents fight me with everything I do. Good luck with your mom and fh!
He gave his blessing - so you every right to go ahead and do what you wanted. He's probably only being difficult now because you've done everything (job, school, house, etc) that he wanted you to accomplish before so there's nothing stopping you now. You have your date and venue, just wait for him to come around and carry on. Good luck
My sister thinks its because I didn't include my parents in the process. But I have tried over and over again and they always brushed me off. FH and I are paying for it and tired of trying to please everyone so we did what we wanted. They can definitely be a part of it if they choose too!
