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party with FH and i

Wifeynella Posted:

party with FH and i

Hiya,

Please join us on Saturday, Feb. 9th at the East End Bar on the Upper East Side to celebrate our engagement. With the holidays and the new year, we had to put off the idea of an engagement party so we figured, now is as good a time as any.

The bar is located in the space formerly known as Fiona's at 1664 First Ave. between 86th/87th Street, New York, NY 10028. It's accessible by the 4,5,6 Train to 86th Street station. (the front of the bar may still have a sign that saids 'Fiona's) lol They are very eclectic with the music they play too!

From 10pm-1am you can get open bar and buffet for $40 pp. We'll be having penne vodka, wings, quesadillas and chicken fingers. All are welcome! =)
bluegreen08 Posted:

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I know your quote line says you need a money tree, but you're charging a cover charge for your 'engagement party' ??
Wifeynella Posted:

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Posted by bluegreen08

I know your quote line says you need a money tree, but you're charging a cover charge for your 'engagement party' ??




lol. its a bar so we figure people will either buy their drinks as they go or if they want the open bar they will do the 40. its really not a real party more like 'we are going to the bar for a reason.' lmaooo

the $ doesn't go to us, its what the bar charges!
Kimbalina Posted:

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IN MY HONEST opinion... this sounds tacky to me.
Sorry but if i received this I would think you are cheaping out on a party and want me to pay for it
Mici n KC Posted:

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I get what you're saying. I wouldn't call it a party though. I would rephrase it and say come celebrate our engagement with us at such and such bar with the details. I know a lot of people do stuff like this for their birthdays.

Wifeynella Posted:

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again, its not really a party. as a group we all do this for birthdays, promotons, etc. all the time. the 40 a person is 100% optional. its the equivalent of a GTG. you are going to enjoy each other's company not for a party.

people go and come as they want, no gifts are given. just friends having out. i was sent on as a bulletin on myspace and facebook, no direct invites or anything.

anyway.
bluegreen08 Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina

IN MY HONEST opinion... this sounds tacky to me.
Sorry but if i received this I would think you are cheaping out on a party and want me to pay for it



I agree 100% -- I wouldn't call it an 'engagement party' then because people will feel obligated to bring gifts.

You might offend some people.
blaine08 Posted:

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i know what u mean...just going out to celebrate and have a good time. Hope u have fun!

Wifeynella Posted:

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Posted by JML08

i know what u mean...just going out to celebrate and have a good time. Hope u have fun!




ty! lmaooo.
NC1011 Posted:

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hmmmmmmm..... in the original posters defense, I believe she just stated to come out and 'celebrate' their engagement and did not really specify that it was in fact an 'engagement party'. The title of the post I think was meant to be interpreted as 'Party with us' as in 'Woo hoo, come out and PARTY' not 'we are having a party'.

I think the wording is what is throwing everybody off.
Wifeynella Posted:

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p,s, this was the myspace bulletin to show how informal it is.

Subject: Bar Anyone?

Body:

Hey Everyone,

Since Thomas and I decided to hold off on celebrating our engagement until after the holidays we decided now was as good a time as any to party! lol We are going to be at The East End Bar on Saturday, Feb. 9th from 10pm til when ever.

The bar is located in the space formerly known as Fiona's at 1664 First Ave. between 86th/87th Street, New York, NY 10028. It's accessible by the 4,5,6 Train to 86th Street station.

The front of the bar may still have a sign that saids 'Fiona's' just incase.. lmaooo. (Hey Lauren --- when are they fixing that??)

From 10pm-1am you can get open bar and buffet for $40 pp if you want. We'll be having penne vodka, wings, quesadillas and chicken fingers.

All are welcome! =)
Kimbalina Posted:

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Have a great time!!!

gfield101 Posted:

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Posted by BklynBride2Be

again, its not really a party. as a group we all do this for birthdays, promotons, etc. all the time. the 40 a person is 100% optional. its the equivalent of a GTG. you are going to enjoy each other's company not for a party.

people go and come as they want, no gifts are given. just friends having out. i was sent on as a bulletin on myspace and facebook, no direct invites or anything.

anyway.



You dont need to explain yourself!! and if it was a traditional 'engagement party' would you really be inviting 10,000 brides to be that youve never met before? LOL I think its a cute idea!

Dont ... be
gfield101 Posted:

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LOL you do something cute and nice, and there always has to be one or 2 debbie downers to critisize!! LOL To each his own!

sassygirl9 Posted:

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HA I didn't interpret it in a bad way, you're basically saying, hey come by if you wanna party

Kimbalina Posted:

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Posted by gfield101


Posted by BklynBride2Be

again, its not really a party. as a group we all do this for birthdays, promotons, etc. all the time. the 40 a person is 100% optional. its the equivalent of a GTG. you are going to enjoy each other's company not for a party.

people go and come as they want, no gifts are given. just friends having out. i was sent on as a bulletin on myspace and facebook, no direct invites or anything.

anyway.



You dont need to explain yourself!! and if it was a traditional 'engagement party' would you really be inviting 10,000 brides to be that youve never met before? LOL I think its a cute idea!

Dont ... be



LOL---

I didnt realize we were all invite!!!
Wifeynella Posted:

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Posted by Kimbalina


Posted by gfield101


Posted by BklynBride2Be

again, its not really a party. as a group we all do this for birthdays, promotons, etc. all the time. the 40 a person is 100% optional. its the equivalent of a GTG. you are going to enjoy each other's company not for a party.

people go and come as they want, no gifts are given. just friends having out. i was sent on as a bulletin on myspace and facebook, no direct invites or anything.

anyway.



You dont need to explain yourself!! and if it was a traditional 'engagement party' would you really be inviting 10,000 brides to be that youve never met before? LOL I think its a cute idea!

Dont ... be



LOL---

I didnt realize we were all invite!!!



lol of course you are all!!! who else is better to have drink with then my fellow brides 2 be!!
JeanetteandSteve Posted:

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i don't think i can make it, but have a great time!!

mnd1202 Posted:

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have a great time.....i get what ur saying we do this all the time....i think its a good idea

lwny427 Posted:

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Posted by BklynBride2Be

again, its not really a party. as a group we all do this for birthdays, promotons, etc. all the time. the 40 a person is 100% optional. its the equivalent of a GTG. you are going to enjoy each other's company not for a party.

people go and come as they want, no gifts are given. just friends having out. i was sent on as a bulletin on myspace and facebook, no direct invites or anything.

anyway.



My friends set up open bars like this for celebrations all the time....its fine if that is what your crowd is used to. I know what you're talking about.

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