Past Brides - I have a walking down the aisle question

madseason Posted: Apr 01, 2008 09:58 AM

Past Brides - I have a walking down the aisle question

Who walks the inlaws down the aisle? Does FMIL have an usher or does FFIL walk down with her - are they in the processional?

Help!

DeeDee1013 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:04 AM

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My father passed away 7 years ago. My oldest brother walked my Mom down the aisle.

My DH's father passed away 10 years ago. My DH walked his Mom down the aisle.

amytee Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:07 AM

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Dh's father passed away, so my Dh walked his mom down.

missliss Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:07 AM

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You can honestly do it however YOU want. There's no 'correct' way to do a processional. I'll tell you what I did though.

FH walked down with his brother (the Best Man). They stood up front.

Then:
FMIL w/her husband
FFIL w/his wife

BMs and GMs

FG and RB

MOH alone

Me and my parents

But every family dynamic is different so you have to do what works out best with your group.

woobie113007 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:09 AM

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I had FFIL and FMIL walk together down the aisle at the church,

SusiBtoM Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:10 AM

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My husband is Jewish, so both his parents walked with him down the aisle.
In Christian ceremonies, the parents of the groom walk down the aisle together, they are usually the first pair to walk down. It is the mother of the bride that is escorted by an usher since the father of the bride walks with the bride.

curlyq4458 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:26 AM

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me the bride, is walking with both of my parents...my FH is also walking down with both of his parents.

MJDoc12 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:26 AM

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FIL wasn't in attendance of our wedding (thank gawd)

MIL was escorted down the aisle by her other son, the best man

longislandlibrarian Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:39 AM

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I am going to have FMIL AND FFIL walk down together

PegaLega Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:52 AM

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They walk together, if they are divorced or seperated you can have their SO walk them or designate a friend that is close to your family to walk them down

madseason Posted: Apr 01, 2008 10:58 AM

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thanks everyone! I asked because FMIL wants her other son to walk her down - but i dont know what to do with FFIL. THey are married and still very much in love?

So Im just not going to accomidate this one i think -

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Apr 01, 2008 11:12 AM

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I'm not sure who will be walking FMIL down the aisle, FH's brother is the best man and their dad is not in the picture, so I am assuming maybe one of FMILs nephews? everyone else is in my BP so I don't know how that would work

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 11:14 AM

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strange- why wouldnt she want to walk with her husband

maybe her son and husband can walk her. Is her son an usher and will that mess up the BP order?

is she thinking this b/c when the bride is walked by her father the MOB is walked by a son or usher??

madseason Posted: Apr 01, 2008 11:24 AM

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Posted by ChristineAaron08

strange- why wouldnt she want to walk with her husband

maybe her son and husband can walk her. Is her son an usher and will that mess up the BP order?

is she thinking this b/c when the bride is walked by her father the MOB is walked by a son or usher??

Shes just a weirdo and likes to control things...

Yes her son is in the BP
and i dont know why she wants it...

mf2009 Posted: Apr 01, 2008 12:43 PM

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I am personally going to have my in laws walk together. And have my bro walk my mom down the aisle. I don't see how this would be a problem so see if it works for you!