Past brides- is this normal?

Past brides- is this normal?

So, I am getting married in FOUR days, but I am amazingly calm. It is like I feel like I am an outsider getting ready for someone else's wedding. It is the weirdest thing. Well, I guess this morning I was up at 5:45 thinking of things I had to finish, but I was just wondering if anyone else was this calm. I am sure the night before will be a different story!

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YES it is normal. People react to stress and excitement in different ways. I thought i was going to be a nervous wreck...On my wedding day i was the calmest person there. Even my hairstylist commented on how cool and collected i was.

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i was so calm..i was playing xbox..relaxing with my best man. no need to stress..its the biggest day of your life and all the planning you have done will be reality

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I was calm to, even the morning of, my only problem was that my stomach was a little nervous, so I didnt want to eat even though I was hungry, it tasted like sawdust.

After we were all done getting our hair and stuff done we had some time before we had to get dressed so we played cards

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YES! I felt the same. Its like at this point, there is nothing more you can do. Relax and enjoy this time!!!!

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i am the most nervous nelly person in the entire worls - and on my wedding day - i was as calm as anything it was so bizarre - but just verified to me that i knew this is what i had always wanted and waited for!!!!!!

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I was SO calm, it was unbelieveable. My hairdresser has been doing my hair since I was in HS. On the morning of my wedding, she said she knew I would be calm but she was floored by how calm I was. I was cool as a cucumber throughout the day. I think I knew in my heart that I was marrying my soulmate, and we did everything we could do beforehand to ensure a good day. It's better to be calm!

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I was very calm and just enjoying the time. I thought I'd be a wreck the day before and day of, but I just had the time of my life!

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I, too, was calm....nothing to worry about!

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I was very calm beginning the week before the wedding. On the day of I was so laid back that nothing phased me. The bridal attendents and maitre'd at Chateau said I was the calmest bride they'd ever seen. (But they could have been saying that for a big tip... LOL) But I was so calm I impressed myself!