Of course I must keep in mind that my pregnancy hormones are raging, but..3 times today people had the need to tell me that I 'will have my hands full once the baby comes'. Yeah, no sh*t!!! First I was at King Kullen and someone looked at me, my preggo belly, and 2 screaming kids and said 'you'll have your hands full in a few months', then we were at the dentist and the receptionist said it again! Then in CVS a lady said 'God Bless You'. How rude, are my 2 kids so out of control or am I in for a rude awakening once the baby comes? I mean, I'll have 3 kids not 10, I think I handle it.
jantany26
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people have no clue sometimes and feel like they have a need to say something.
Hello, nobody is asking you.
ambersmom
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I agree with Tania, people say some stupid $hit sometimes
Jmg11
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I don't think you are overreacting - I hate when people feel the need to add their 2 cents.
When I started telling people I was pregnant - I got a lot of this
'Wow, you don't waste any time do you'
or my all time fav (this made STEAM come out from my ears) when I told someone at work -
Him: 'Wow, you are pregnant? You have only been married 4 months - was this an accident?'
Me: ' umm...(shocked) No...'
HIm: 'oh so you are happy then?'
WHAT? I am a 29 yr old married woman - HOW rude to ask that - I dont care if I was single and 15 yrs old - it is soooo rude to ask if it was an accident.
Elizabeth
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People are so unbelievably rude. Im sure you can relate to this - my friend is preggo with #3 and some people have actually said 'Why are you having another?' as if 2 is the officially cut off for sane parents. She already has a boy and a girl and she's also had more than one person say 'why are you having another, you already have one of each'
I love unsolicited opinions
Butterflybride
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Posted by jantany26
people have no clue sometimes and feel like they have a need to say something.
Hello, nobody is asking you.
Yeah, seriously. I don't even understand why some people open their mouths. It's like they have to talk just for the sake of talking .
chichila15
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It's rude because these people are judging you. SO WHAT if you'll have three kids!? What's it to them? People are so stupid sometimes, and just because they think that they wouldn't be able to handle 3 kids, doesn't mean that you don't think it's a blessing.
