PEOPLE SUX

Alvatorre74 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:39 PM

PEOPLE SUX

Right now Im soooooo upset....5 days to freaking go and people are canceling on me...Or stupid people that said were going to bring guest and now they r not!!!!! I've already paid for these a$$holes!!! PEOPLE JUST SUX... My only advise to the future brides is that you should underestimate the amount of people that said YES cause people will cancel last minute!!! Its too late to invite anyone else!!!!

franksbride Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:44 PM

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sorry...i know people s u c k!

dmorris8 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:46 PM

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I am sorry to hear that The same thing happened to a girl in my office last week.

Xelindrya Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:47 PM

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Yep.. that definally has Suc*kage value..
Sorry to hear that.

five days and it will all be over

You'll be a Mrs.

aliciahelene Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:49 PM

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Im sorry this is happening to you! The same thing happened to my sister at her wedding!! F^*&ck em..and ENJOY YOUR WEDDING!!!!!

ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:50 PM

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That does suk!! But don't sweat it! You are going to have an amazing day!!

We had someone cancel 2 days before the wedding. She lives in Colorado. I am willing to be the bank that she knew before then that she wasn't going to be flying across country for our wedding.

allure Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:51 PM

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Do you have any standbys?
I know this sounds terrible but it happens maybe someone can fill their shoes
No matter what your day will be beautiful

PinkRose Posted: Aug 26, 2003 10:57 PM

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That sux! They just dont get it. You never know, someone may bring a date that you werent expecting. You never know. Either way, screw them.. it's YOUR DAY!! It will be great!!!!

Alvatorre74 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 11:01 PM

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I am never going to anything these people invite me to..They r lucky if I ever speak to them AGAIN!

ChristineC68 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 11:11 PM

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At least they are telling you now and not just blowing off your wedding

Janine24 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 11:47 PM

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that does ****! I would be ****ed... but you cannot let it ruin your day. And I guess at least they are telling you before hand. I don't think people realize how hard it is on you to cancel last minute unless they went through planning a wedding themselves. They don't know think about seating charts and finals headcounts and all that 'fun' stuff...

Bride2be03 Posted: Aug 26, 2003 11:47 PM

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im so sorry that this is happening to you . oh god i hope this dont happen to me

MarciaD Posted: Aug 27, 2003 01:35 AM

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Oh I am very sorry!

MayDay16 Posted: Aug 27, 2003 08:01 AM

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I feel your pain, 10 people cancelled on me in the last week! Including my god father who called the day of my Wedding.

I tell everyone to short their list by 10 on their final count, that was the best advice I got. It is easier to add people than pay for someone that doesn't show up.

jenny2penny Posted: Aug 27, 2003 08:08 AM

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I am so sorry! I was wondering that...do you give the hall a few less that said yes to plan for a few no shows???

Jen_n_Dale Posted: Aug 27, 2003 08:17 AM

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A friend of my brother's got married I went to the church and a few people had cancelled on them. They had asked me if I want to go to the reception that night. I said sure. Keep your eyes peeled in the church. You never know who may show up. I do think it is rude not to attend a wedding that you rsvp'd to.

Nora101004 Posted: Aug 27, 2003 08:51 AM

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That really does, what you said. Great tip to underestimate though. Sorry you had to pay for those extra people. I did cancel on a wedding once but it was b/c my sis was killed 3 days before.