people that care will come through for you
SO I was just thinking......
One of my BMs was in an awful mood for a few months before my wedding. Her boyfriend broke up with her and her mom is fatally ill. She likes her job but has tons of stress there. She became kinda moody. I just blamed it on the circumstances. Still, I was really upset that she might be so sad and not too nice at my wedding. She had asked to walk down the aisle with one of the GM that she really likes. At first I said 'maybe.' At the last minute I decided to just let her walk with him--it would not cost me anything and if I didn't, she would be unhappy. Well, for the day of my wedding, she put aside all of her negative thoughts and she had a ball!!!!! I was so happy every time I looked at her. It had been so long since she just let loose!!!!
And now, she is gradually doing better. She started to date other people. Her mom is still very sick but not critical right now. She is sort of accepting that her mom is elderly and has had a great life. It will be a tough road. Her dad already passed. But now that I saw how she found a way to enjoy my wedding, I want to be there for her more, know what i mean?????
I guess I really thought she might just sulk at my wedding, but that so totally did not happen!!!!! She looked hot and she said that when she got dressed, that was when she knew she'd have a great time!!!
One of my BMs was in an awful mood for a few months before my wedding. Her boyfriend broke up with her and her mom is fatally ill. She likes her job but has tons of stress there. She became kinda moody. I just blamed it on the circumstances. Still, I was really upset that she might be so sad and not too nice at my wedding. She had asked to walk down the aisle with one of the GM that she really likes. At first I said 'maybe.' At the last minute I decided to just let her walk with him--it would not cost me anything and if I didn't, she would be unhappy. Well, for the day of my wedding, she put aside all of her negative thoughts and she had a ball!!!!! I was so happy every time I looked at her. It had been so long since she just let loose!!!!
And now, she is gradually doing better. She started to date other people. Her mom is still very sick but not critical right now. She is sort of accepting that her mom is elderly and has had a great life. It will be a tough road. Her dad already passed. But now that I saw how she found a way to enjoy my wedding, I want to be there for her more, know what i mean?????
I guess I really thought she might just sulk at my wedding, but that so totally did not happen!!!!! She looked hot and she said that when she got dressed, that was when she knew she'd have a great time!!!
