Personal question about BMs

Are any of your BMs not wearing bras under their dresses (without cups)?

One of mine said she wasnt going to wear a bra and didnt need cups put in...she's busty but-I think she needs one.

Just wondering...& please give opinions. I just dont want her flopping all over the place. It's going to be uncomfortable for her. Should i tell her to wear a bra or put cups in? I was going to but I wanted opinions first.

Thanks all

hmm...
most of my girls are wearing bras, last wedding i was in i didnt wear a bra, i am quite chesty, but i did have cups put it...
is it cuz they dont wanna spend the money to put the cups in, cuz usually its only like $20 more

do the dresses zip up in the back? or do they lace up? i would say if they would lace up at least you can always pull it a little tighter to make sure there is no flopping out...

but i dont see the harm in you suggesting them to wear a bra or put cups in...even if you say it like in a sarcastic tone...

The dress zips on the side. She's more concerned with the dress zipping up than anything. She hasnt gained weight-but she does have a big chest.

I am big on top also, but for my own sanity I've worn bras underneath BM dresses or had cups put in.

It has a lot to do with money. She just got laid off and is collecting unemployment-so I do understand her situation, but regardless, she was going to have to pay for alterations ya know?

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Posted by GT143EA

I dont think any of mine wore bras. I usually dont either but I did have cups put in for my own wedding. What kind of top is it? If its strapless they can make the top snug enough that she probably wont need a bra.

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Hi Gail! It has the option of straps or strapless. She did mention that she was going to get the straps put on....so maybe that will be good enough.

If it's a thick material she may not need it. I'd let her be the judge, just ask to see the dress on it how she plans on wearing it. If it doesn't look appropriate, ask to have cups put in.

I'm really busty and on a lot of styles of dress, I look much better (smaller) if I don't wear a bra which pushes me up and spills out sometimes but if the material is too thin, obviously that won't work.

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Posted by seawedding

If it's a thick material she may not need it. I'd let her be the judge, just ask to see the dress on it how she plans on wearing it. If it doesn't look appropriate, ask to have cups put in.

I'm really busty and on a lot of styles of dress, I look much better (smaller) if I don't wear a bra which pushes me up and spills out sometimes but if the material is too thin, obviously that won't work.

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Cool. Thanks I will let her try it herself and see how she feels.

hmm to be honest im not really sure but i think they are..

if i was you i would tell her to try the dress on in front of you and or everyone and then see wha it looks like..if it looks like she is about to poke someones eyes out just be honest..might be uncomfy but tell her u just want her to be comfy all night

i mean as a busty girls myself lol i want all the support i can get to hold the girls up so i would imagine she should wear one too

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Posted by DonnaPWhite1124

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Posted by GT143EA

I dont think any of mine wore bras. I usually dont either but I did have cups put in for my own wedding. What kind of top is it? If its strapless they can make the top snug enough that she probably wont need a bra.

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Hi Gail! It has the option of straps or strapless. She did mention that she was going to get the straps put on....so maybe that will be good enough.

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I think it will. Im a D and I never wear bras with BM dresses because the material is usually thick enough that i feel more comfy not. Is she saggy though?