Phone call w/BM

So, I finally had a long conversation with one of my BM. All along I've been getting the whole 'whatever dress is fine with me' from her, and 'I'm not going to like it anyway so whatever you pick is fine with me' from my sister/MOH. Tonight BM tells me that the reason she has been saying this is because it's my wedding and she wants me to be happy!! I told her I didn't want to be bridezilla ordering the girls around and telling them they had to wear what I picked out. To my relief, she said I haven't been acting that way AT ALL.

She is going to email the other girls about getting measured and ordering the BM dresses!

She also asked if I knew when my shower was (I don't) - but I took that to mean she might come to NY from AZ for it!!!

I'm glad to hear you had a great talk with your BM and that you're not a bridezilla!

Everything does eventually work out!