Photos

So I am starting to make my photo list and what not and need to make sure FIL know that if FBIL isn't engaged at the time we don't want his gf in every pic like the engagement party was. Our engagement party we don't have one pic with out her. They met Feb 1. our e party was March 20th. How do I put it nicely. I mean we will do one with her but then I don't want her in all the pics unless they are engaged I guess.

how would you say that to FMIL and FBIL??