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Yankees2323 Posted: Aug 12, 2008 04:39 PM

pisssedddddd

my FH wants to move the wedding to 2011 because he doesnt wanna feel stresssed from the cost of it and he still wants to be able to do things and not have to have a tight budget i was so upset looked like he killed my puppy yesterday lol.... now he feels he let me down... which he kinda did but i guess oh well now instead of a yr and 9mths mnths its 2 yrs and 9mths ;-(

sealie321 Posted: Aug 12, 2008 04:47 PM

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I'm sorry. I totally feel your pain though -- we got engaged in october 2005 and we're just getting married this september. I thought it was the longest engagement EVER but to be honest I don't know how we would've paid for it if it were any sooner. You're getting married though -- that's the part that matters, whether it's in 2010 or 2011. Good luck and feel better!

Yankees2323 Posted: Aug 12, 2008 05:02 PM

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thanks... i feel a lil better and i am like damn how are we gonna pay for it lo... its a long as engagement!!

chakrasdeosil Posted: Aug 12, 2008 06:05 PM

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With the economy the way that it is, im not surprised if my FH moves our wedding down also. But in the end its all worth it because I would rather move it down an extra year and have everything i want in my wedding and not be stressed about omg how am i going to pay all of this and where am i going to live and everything like that. It does suck to think wow another year, but its just a year, and a year goes by so quick and you will get a ton of stress pulled off of you if you arent stressing money or anything.

grrulz Posted: Aug 12, 2008 11:36 PM

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oh no!! but i think that's a smart reason thoug he probably wants to make sure your wedding is amazing and out of this world. Now these days is very expensive and it's better that you guys have money also for other things and not being tight on money!!! Things will get better you'll see :)

sealie321 Posted: Aug 13, 2008 02:40 PM

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I'm sorry. That really *****! Is that what's written in your contract? It'll work out. It always does somehow!

On another note, I see you plan on getting married at St. Gregs. That's the church I went to growing up.

KiTTeN0819 Posted: Aug 14, 2008 08:58 AM

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The hall wont just use your deposit to hold the date in 2011? Did you ask? If not threaten to change venues. Considering they have plenty of time to rebook that date its ridiculous.

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Aug 14, 2008 10:24 AM

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I changed my date at my hall, and they just kept my deposit and moved the date... No harm, no foul.

Although, I only changed it by a couple of weeks I don't think from 2010 to 2011 should make much of a difference...

Yankees2323 Posted: Aug 14, 2008 03:41 PM

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at this point i dont want to get married there anymore i just want my dep back!! and now their story is they keep the dep till they re book the date n that party pays the total.. so basically they r tellig me in 2 yrs i can have my $ back

chakrasdeosil Posted: Aug 14, 2008 05:22 PM

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Thats really insane! Two yrs from now, would they seriously give you your deposit? and what if for some weird reason no one books your date? then they stay with ur deposit?