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place cards / widowed women

marj22 Posted:

place cards / widowed women

how to address them for widowed women? ms. or mrs.? thanks!

springsandra Posted:

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My gut tells me Mrs. I had one of my father's cousins whose husband died about a month before our wedding and I put Mrs. and her name on it.

DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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Mrs. I thinking putting Ms. would upset them.

marj22 Posted:

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ok.. sounds good! thank you!

geegee827 Posted:

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It depends on how 'old school' they are. I know my mother's aunt would want to be listed as a 'Mrs.' but MY aunt (a generation down) uses Ms. (but she also used Ms. while she was married).

RPMG26599 Posted:

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Posted by marj22

how to address them for widowed women? ms. or mrs.? thanks!



Mrs.
julesrbf Posted:

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I would say Mrs.

AdriandSteve Posted:

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Posted by geegee827

It depends on how 'old school' they are. I know my mother's aunt would want to be listed as a 'Mrs.' but MY aunt (a generation down) uses Ms. (but she also used Ms. while she was married).



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My great uncle sends my mom x-mas cards addressed to, Mrs. Peter S.

But everyone else sends it to Mrs. Diane S.
Mommy2BeBride Posted:

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I would put Mrs. & the husbands name

ex: Mrs. John Doe

Thats just the respectful way, I think.
tee1781 Posted:

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I used Mrs. being that she still uses his last name and never remarried.

eta: I used Mrs. and her first name w/ his last name...not his first name- So for ex: Mrs. Katherine Married
PeterNina Mom Posted:

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Definitely Mrs.

Tomlaur0808 Posted:

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Mrs.

My aunt's 2nd husband passed away 5 months before the wedding - we wrote hers as Mrs.

plus we had 2 friends form church who lost their husbands a good 15-18 years ago and they are still wanting to be called Mrs. - we wrote both as Mrs.

HTH!
FutureJOC Posted:

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I would def. put - Mrs.

Scarpak Posted:

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i would do Mrs.

jilliebean84 Posted:

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the 'proper' way for that is Mrs., with HER first name, and her married last name. I'm actually always paranoid to accidentally address someone who has NOT lost their husband that way - b/c it implies that her husband is not alive.

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