Planning Alone (long-vent)

I'm feeling kind of bad today... My parents don't want to help at all with the planning of the wedding. I'm not just talking about the financial end, I'm talking about the interest in planning. My mother is a doctor and doesn't have the time to look at dresses with me. I have asked her to come so many times but it just doesn't interest her. My wedding is last on a list of priorities. She has made me cancel appointments I set up and even asked me to buy the dress alone. She says I have a lot of time to get a dress (could wait until 6 months before) and even suggested I buy an evening gown instead! My father isn't interested also- they act like my wedding is just another boring day- my dad called it a party.
I'm just feeling a little blue right now because I look at other parents of brides/my friends and they are doing nice things for them, getting actively involved, going to seven different photographers. just to get it right, cry when their daughter tries on gowns, is compulsive about the details, and my parents are like, 'let's get this over with'. My mom is like, 'you are making too big a deal over the wedding'. Am I? Is anyone else going through this? Am I expecting too much?