planning my wedding

hi ladies, i have a do u think its necessary for me to do the whole shebang for my wedding im mean the bridal party gifts the favors for my bridal shower, and spending so much for invites i think all of these things are unecessary cause they will all be in the the garbage no matter how nice they look that is my money going down the drain i plan on buying the cheap 99cents invites and ppl can call me to them me know if they are coming or not. its not that im being cheap, its just that i refuse to spend money on unnecessary things. my bridal party understands that we are tight with money and they should not be expecting gifts and anyway they entire bp are brothers and sister (mine and his) so they understand. and besides what is the point of giving them gifts anyway. either they want to be in your bp or not i am only spending on my rh. im even thinking about making my own centerpieces with silk flowers. im refuse to spend on flowers when they will die in a few days sorrry had to express my feelings