planning on asking my last BM tonight!! wish me luck!!

okay, so i have basically known for MONTHSSSS who i wanted in my BP...i got cards...and wrote them out....and asked everyone....but one girl...

she is my oldest friend...but she recently broke off her engagement, and i just didnt think it was right to ask her so soon after....

so the last two months or so i have been trying to ask her...i take the card everytime i meet her...and the convo starts back on her ex....and i just dont feel its right.....so i keep the card in the bag....

but i really want to get BM dresses soon...and i want to involve her....so i really need to ask her soon....

so tonight i think is the night...eek

wish me luck.....i think im just gonna try to give her the card before we even start a conversation just so there is no reason not to

agh! im a bit nervous tho...i dont like big splashy announcements...everyone else i kinda just gave the card when i was saying goodnight to them. LOL

ok...so hopefully by tomorrow we will have our BP SET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! sure its uneven (since we are kicking out a GM), but who cares!!

wow, poor girl....
good luck with this tonite, it sounds like giving it to her straight up would be the best way
i'm sure it will go well

good luck!!!

even if it makes her a little sad bc she will think of her called off engagement, i am sure you will make her feel really good by asking her and she will be happy to do it!

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Posted by MrsC2010

good luck!!!

even if it makes her a little sad bc she will think of her called off engagement, i am sure you will make her feel really good by asking her and she will be happy to do it!

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FH and I were both in her BP...so i know it will be mixed emotions......

Such a tough situation! I am sure she will be THRILLED when you ask her!!! Helping plan your wedding will help take her mind off of her ex!
GOOD LUCK!

good luck
let us know how it goes!!!!