ok, im sitting here hysterical crying right now. my bil who is a groomsman and i just had a fight for absolutely no reason. my niece who is almost 3 was there also my fg and my sister who is my moh, best friend, and pregnant was there. i was upset that they went pumpkin picking and they didnt even buy me a little pumpkin. i cant begin to tell u how much time money and love i spend on this kid. i love her like she is my own. i wouldnt have even of cared, but i just wanted to know y i couldnt have been thought of, because no matter where i go they are always thought of. my sister says if we bought u we would have had to buy his brothers. i said no and from there it esculated. i said i buy her everything. he said so dont threaten us, dont buy her anything anymore, everything is not a competition. i wasnt making it a competition, i was just hurt that i wasnt thought of for a losy 50 cents. anyway he told me to get out, unlocked the door, and as i was already walking out, he grabbed my wrist and told me to get out again. i live around the corner and i went home crying. my fh calmed me down, and then says see what being nice gets u. i hate this so much. i dont know what to do but cry. please give me advice on what i should do. thanks sorry i didnt realize it would be this long.
beautyq115
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What did your sister say when your BIL pushed you out?? That was really uncalled for
Tracy06
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yeah that was really uncalled for.. I understand that you were upset, what did your sister say? did she stand up for you?
Debra7/21
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my sister just told him to stop it. they just called. my bil apologzed, but they still feel i had no right to say anything about his family. all i said was that then ill start doing what they do because my sister said if i bought u then i would have to by his brothers too. i wasnt comparing until they were. im glad they called and made the first move and apologized, but i still feel really upset.
Wintersbride
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The part that stands out to me is why is he putting his hands on you? That was not necessary and completely unacceptable.
ETA: if you feel that they do not appreciate your generosity, then maybe you should stop buying so much for them.
