Okay, I tried on a lot of different dresses and I'm sick of looking at this point. I have narrowed it down to two. The first one, I do not have a picture of myself in it. It's a James Clifford, love the dress and it made me feel like a bride. The second dress is by White One style #189 (never heard of it). It's an empire waist with pleats on the bottom. I like it because it's different, very simple and light, less than half the price of the first. I wasn't able to find any pictures of it online. Maybe you girls have seen it. My wedding is in Manhattan on a saturday night. Somehow I think the first dress is more appropriate but my family seem to like the second dress more. I'd like to know what you think. The second dress is closest to this except it doesn't have layers on the bottom and it has beads on the chest area.