Please tell me that there will be enough people at my wedding....

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:34 PM

Please tell me that there will be enough people at my wedding....

That I won't have to deal with people who I hate and don't want there

kissy27 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:37 PM

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Kathleen, don't even think like that! Trust me when I say, you notice the people that are MOST important to you & the others are just surroundings!!!

You must enjoy your wedding to the fullest & remember the MOST important! This is DH & your day...No one will or can ruin it!

cindyandkevin Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:39 PM

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Kathleen, Kissy's right!!!!!!!! There isn't going to be anyone there who is going to be able to ruin your day unless you let them!!!!!!

Smile, be beautiful, and have a wonderful wedding day; just relax and enjoy yourself, you'll be so glad you did!!!!!

ewickens Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:40 PM

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Just as the girls stated, Kathleen! Just relax and enjoy your blissful date in the limelight!!! You won't even notice the people!!!!!!!

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:43 PM

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I cannot relax right now....I never wanted these people there....and I just don't want to see them

kissy27 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:44 PM

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Posted by beautyq115

I cannot relax right now....I never wanted these people there....and I just don't want to see them

I am sorry you feel this way but unfortunately what is done is done...Just make sure you don't give off the appearance that you didn't want them there!!! Smile & be the beautiful bride you are going to be!!!

JXNOscar Posted: Jul 10, 2006 02:45 PM

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I will be there to cheer you up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 03:06 PM

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I know...trust me these people know I don't want them there....but FI insisted on inviting them

leese Posted: Jul 10, 2006 03:42 PM

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Posted by cindyandkevin

Kathleen, Kissy's right!!!!!!!! There isn't going to be anyone there who is going to be able to ruin your day unless you let them!!!!!!

Smile, be beautiful, and have a wonderful wedding day; just relax and enjoy yourself, you'll be so glad you did!!!!!

I agree. Seriously, you only remember those who get up and dance with you and have a good time. And all these worries and concerns will melt away after you say 'I Do'

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Jul 10, 2006 04:31 PM

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Kathleen, it doesn't even matter. You will be so wrapped up in the fact that you are getting MARRIED and looking into your FHs (DH!!!) eyes all day you won't even notice who is there. The day is going to go by so fast don't preoccupy yourself with these kinds of thoughts. Now stop worrying about everything and enjoy yourself!

Goldi1021 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 04:45 PM

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Just point them out to those of us who are coming and we will make sure they stay out of the way!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 05:06 PM

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Wow that is pretty messed up that you're going to have people that you actually DONT want there...but dont worry, nothing or nobody should put a damper on your day...unless you let them...chin up!

Kris516 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 06:31 PM

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Enough people? TRUST ME, you're going to feel as though the amount of people there is triple! The worst part of the wedding for me was the 'crowd guilt' - did I see everyone? did i spend enough time so and so, and too much time with friends? etc? I even had 'dance floor' guilt - I felt like I needed to dance with everyone out there.

Happybride2005 Posted: Jul 10, 2006 07:20 PM

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just concentrate on your soon to be dh. don't let anyone get to u. its your special day

summer06bride Posted: Jul 11, 2006 12:06 AM

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Posted by beautyq115

That I won't have to deal with people who I hate and don't want there

geez kathleen feeling the same way...i have a co-worker who i wasn't on great terms with when the school year ended...i was sure he wasn't going to come but so far he hasn't call to tell me otherwise...stinks...but great words of advice ladies

autumn Posted: Jul 11, 2006 12:13 AM

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Posted by kissy27

Kathleen, don't even think like that! Trust me when I say, you notice the people that are MOST important to you & the others are just surroundings!!!

You must enjoy your wedding to the fullest & remember the MOST important! This is DH & your day...No one will or can ruin it!

I agree with the ladies, I too am in the same boat. I do know that FMIL and FH's aunt will make sure no one from my side will ruin it for FH and I.

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 11, 2006 12:18 AM

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Posted by summer06bride

Posted by beautyq115

That I won't have to deal with people who I hate and don't want there

geez kathleen feeling the same way...i have a co-worker who i wasn't on great terms with when the school year ended...i was sure he wasn't going to come but so far he hasn't call to tell me otherwise...stinks...but great words of advice ladies

summer06bride Posted: Jul 11, 2006 12:23 AM

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right back at you kathleen

beautyq115 Posted: Jul 11, 2006 12:26 AM

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Posted by summer06bride

right back at you kathleen

We cannot let this people get to us...its just that these people have voices that are like nails on a chalk board to me

Can't think about that though!