Hi everybody. I have a really big problem. My friend suggested I talk to people on the site because they really helped her out with her wedding plans and problems. Last weekend I cheated on my fiance with one of his friends. We were both drunk at a party and my fiance had to work the next day and went home early. One thing led to another and we had sex. I regretted it as soon as it happened but I feel so guilty. I wanted to tell my fiance but I know he will call off the wedding if he finds out. I don't know what to do. TO make matters worse the so-called friend of my fiances is pressuring me to have sex with him again and wants me to have a threesome with him and another guy. He is threatening to tell my fiance if I don't go through with it. I am so confused and don't know what to do. If anybody has any advice for me I'd really appreciate it. I have been crying my eyes out for the last week and I think Mike is getting suspicious. I don't know what to do. I love my fiance and really to want to marry him. If anybody can help me please respond
Monica27
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Is anybody there I really need some help and advice
aliasPook
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groovypeg
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WithThisRing
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no comment because what I am thinking you may not like and I dont want to upset or insult you.
So since I dont have anything nice to say i am not saying anything at all.
sorry.
sweetnessconfused
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Monica-
I would tell his friend to scratch or better yer '----' off. His friend is not going to tell him anything because he knows you FI will beat the living daylights out of him. He is only using this to threaten you.
kptoys
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I dont have anything nice to say to you either...
mims107
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I think your FH is better off without you.
Sorry I am honost.
Nessa79
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To not tell him is a lie anyway, and you will always get caught in a lie. Be honest you have to tell him. In relationships HONESTY and trust are the most important things, if you dont have that you dont have anything.
I would say you have to tell him or believe me he will find out anyway, believe me it will come back to haunt you if you try to keep it a secret. You made the mistake, and now you have to own up to it, maybe he will understand or maybe he won't.
God Luck
wenndypoo
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Edited to say: Originally I had responded to be supportive of this ' poor girl', but after reading her other posts, I don't believe any of it!
allure
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I'm with ya Wendy
LnP2003
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WHADDA CROCK!!!!!!!!!
kaangel217
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I really hope that you get some serious help. From your past posts on this board you either need to see a doctor asap or you have such a boring life that you have nothing better to do. You would rather waste the time of women who want to give advice to real people not phonies like you seem to be. I f you did cheat on your man like you say you did than you really need to tell him what you did is unforgiveable and using alchol as an excuse is just what it is an EXCUSE!!
Jess2
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I had a comment but I'm changing it - if you can't say something nice I guess don't say it at all.
soon2bmrs2004
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Tell Him NOW!!!!! Cause if not....'What goes around, will come around' Don't start a life together with a lie. Not a good basis for a long lasting relationship. In the end it will end regardless. Either it will happen now or later. Later may be more painful.
