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DanaRenee Posted: Dec 07, 2005 04:34 PM

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atlast62506 Posted: Dec 07, 2005 04:35 PM

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i'm not thrilled with the idea but i can deal with it....he knows better than to try anything and I completely trust him!

kellwolfe Posted: Dec 07, 2005 04:43 PM

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Not thrilled but what ever - he never goes its more cause of his friends not him - Knock you self out

alioop4282 Posted: Dec 07, 2005 05:00 PM

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I don't mind that at all. I think it's funny actually. It's the hoochies hanging out in the bars that would concern me more!

charliesbride Posted: Dec 07, 2005 05:49 PM

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we both agreed that we arent doing the whole strip club/hunkamania for the bachelor/ette party. Personally, i dont wany my man getting lap dances from those dirty girls...and i know he wouldnt go there to get one...but i KNOW all his buddies would keep buying them for him that night. he actually hates strip clubs..so i lucked out!!!

Laura&Phil Posted: Dec 07, 2005 06:04 PM

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I don't care, I trust him and want him to have fun. He knows where the line is ...I actually say that he'd better get a lap dance b/c I don't want anyone to say that he was gipped! If his party is like the one he threw for his brother I would be happy. They had a VIP room with a full nude stripper but the bouncer made sure you don't grab the girl. To each their own!

SomethingBlu Posted: Dec 07, 2005 06:08 PM

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My man wanted 'titt!es' in his face and I'm hoping that's what he got. Totally OK with it. Not only do I trust him, but I know him...if not, I wouldn't have married him. I think it comes down to personal comfort level, values and beliefs about those things. Most in my family thought I was nuts, some wives forbid their hubbies from going...but I wouldn't live my life any other way. It's a 'rite of passage' for some men and I couldn't take that away.

FallBride05 Posted: Dec 07, 2005 06:11 PM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

My man wanted 'titt!es' in his face and I'm hoping that's what he got. Totally OK with it. Not only do I trust him, but I know him...if not, I wouldn't have married him. I think it comes down to personal comfort level, values and beliefs about those things. Most in my family thought I was nuts, some wives forbid their hubbies from going...but I wouldn't live my life any other way. It's a 'rite of passage' for some men and I couldn't take that away.

Well said. DH actually didn't have a BP nor did he want one, but I told him if that's what he wants to do, I had no problem with it. It's not his cup of tea anyway....I trust him 200%

STBH Posted: Dec 07, 2005 06:39 PM

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listen I'm going to a strip club myself soooo...

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Dec 07, 2005 07:00 PM

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Who cares!! I have been to them with my friends for fun, to see what the big deal was. It is stupid, and the girls just want money, not your guys. If you touch the girls the wrong way, you get thrown out. Just tell him ' No lap dances' if it really bothers you.

roxyspark Posted: Dec 07, 2005 07:07 PM

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I don't really have a problem with FH going to a strip club for his BP.

I know the kind of man I am marrying and he wouldn't hook up with one of the girls at the strip club (Or anyone else)

JLP Posted: Dec 07, 2005 08:06 PM

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Mine didn't go for his, but I wouldn't have flipped. ICK!

PegaLega Posted: Dec 07, 2005 11:03 PM

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Posted by AlliNMatt06

Who cares!! I have been to them with my friends for fun, to see what the big deal was. It is stupid, and the girls just want money, not your guys. If you touch the girls the wrong way, you get thrown out. Just tell him ' No lap dances' if it really bothers you.

I agree-I know some girls who dance and they all say the same thing...they rarely even look at them twice-most are MARRIED themselves.

But-I dont mind

WedHead Posted: Dec 07, 2005 11:32 PM

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Luckily, DH thinks they're a little scuzzy - so he didn't go. Personally, it upsets me that there's so much pressure in our society for guys to have another woman's body parts up in their face before they get married. I know it's all in good fun, but I think it's yucky.