Originally, I was all set to take off three days before the wedding and then two weeks after the wedding~and I had enough days to do so. But then, my office closed for two snow days (thanks mother nature), so I had to use two of my personal days. So…….my question is: should I just take the days I originally wanted to and just not get paid for two days, or come back to work two days earlier? WWYD?
Jna2010
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first of all.... thats total BS that they make you use for days because the office was closed because of snoww, freakin ridiculous
i would take unpaid days off, its your hm!! you can only go on it once! enjoy it! i tried to get unpaid days but they wouldnt freakin let me! pshhhh
StaceyWill
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Posted by Jna2010
first of all.... thats total BS that they make you use for days because the office was closed because of snoww, freakin ridiculous
i would take unpaid days off, its your hm!! you can only go on it once! enjoy it! i tried to get unpaid days but they wouldnt freakin let me! pshhhh
I know...it's so unfair that we had to use personal days...It sux!!!
AgaBride062610
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can you talk to your manager? maybe because it is your wedding they can do you a favor and let you take the 2 days and get paid for it ?
christine2010
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What about just taking off 1 day before the wedding???
My boss actually offered that I could take off more days before the wedding but knowing myself I will go crazy at home for all those days with very little to do.
Its my opinion that when you get back from your honeymoon there are going to be so many things that you have to do. Unpack, Laundry, get settled at home again, grocery shopping, sort the mail, etc. So I think the extra days after are more important. Also if you marriage license is returned by then you can use one of those days to change your name (if you are).
Future Mrs H
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Take the extra days off- you are going to need a few days to get settled
GiannisWifey
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for 2 days, and because its your HM, I would take it as you originally planned and not get paid for them...........hey, you go on your HM once!
StaceyWill
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Posted by christine2010
What about just taking off 1 day before the wedding???
My boss actually offered that I could take off more days before the wedding but knowing myself I will go crazy at home for all those days with very little to do.
Its my opinion that when you get back from your honeymoon there are going to be so many things that you have to do. Unpack, Laundry, get settled at home again, grocery shopping, sort the mail, etc. So I think the extra days after are more important. Also if you marriage license is returned by then you can use one of those days to change your name (if you are).
I really need to take off from the Wednesday before-during the day we have to bring all the stuff to the RH, the rehearsal is at night and I know Thurs and Fri, we'll be busy. And you're soooo right, after the HM, there's gonna be a ton to do.
StaceyWill
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Posted by AgaBride062610
can you talk to your manager? maybe because it is your wedding they can do you a favor and let you take the 2 days and get paid for it ?
I could talk to him, but I know it will be a waste of breath
JBC12510
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Its your honeymoon! For sure take 2 days unpaid! That's what I'd do.
MrsDR2010
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for 2 days, and because its your HM, I would take it as you originally planned and not get paid for them...........hey, you go on your HM once!
ITA!!!!!! Plus u are going to need those 2 days. You may think you have everything done but those last minute things become alot
