Poll - Enjoying the planning or not?

Poll - Enjoying the planning or not?

Ok I might be one of the few on here that are having so much fun planning this wedding but I just have to ask all of you. Tell the truth! I know it is stressful but I would be so bored if my mind was not constantly thinking of wedding 'stuff'. I am so scared that it is going too fast and then after it is over, I will miss the planning.

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I love it on occasions when things go the way I want them to and hate it when things don't go the way I want. It's such a love/hate relationship. Would I do it again. HECK NO!!! Would I help other people probably

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I have mixed feelings about it. I definitely don't think I'll miss it when it's over and I wouldn't want to do it again, at least not for myself. I think it would be a lot more fun to plan someones elses wedding than my own.

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Even though I get stressed out a lot I still love the planning process. It is so exciting to do all of this and then to see how it all turns out on the big day! I can't wait

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I like it, not love it. I am getting tired of the wedding consuming all of my thoughts. I can't even imagine having a long engagement. I would go crazy!

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I Love It!!! Lots of anticipation though!!!

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It depends on the day. Overall, I love it - but lately I am very unmotivated and unproductive.

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I picked other because I love some parts but hate others!

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Overall, I have to say I LOVE it.... yes there are times when it get stressful and I get very frustrated, upset, or angry but for the most part I do love it. You really only get to do it once (your first wedding anyway) so it's a special time. Would I do it again... uh... NO probably NOT... but I would LOVE to do it for someone ELSE!

ETA: I also used to worry about it going so fast and me missing it when it's over... don't worry that'll change... I've been training myself to look forward to 'getting my life back' so that I don't miss it when it's over!

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I picked other! For the first month or two I thought it was fun but since then I just feel like ENOUGH already I just want to be married and start my life!!!!

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like parts of it but not others...it has been stressful, definitely the most stressful part of our relationship so far (trying to agree on all the details, who to include and invite, etc!)

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HATED IT, but didnt know about this website until after I was married. I bet if I had everyones support before hand it wouldnt have been that bad. I went through all of the emotions on my own and had no one to bounce my ideas off of.

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i honestly love every single moment of it, this is the day ive dreamed of for so long, i dont want this to ever end. I vowed to my self i would love every minute of it, and i totaly do

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I have absolutely loved planning our wedding. My fiance, my family and my friends have all made it a pure joy as they've all given me overwhelming support. I feel truly blessed to be having such a wonderful bride-to-be experience. I think I will be a little sad after the wedding, but I am also looking forward to married life.

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Defnitly enjoying the planning and all the excited feelings once you pick stuff out/book vendors etc....figuring out how to have enough $$$$$$$ before the day comes is HORRIBLE!!! FI stresses so much and I try not too..

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I HATE it! I should have picked other though because it was fun in the beginning. The last two months or so have been hell and I can't wait until it is over. I will be happy when the day gets here and we are married and go on our honeymoon. I can't wait until I don't have all this stuff to worry about besides, I will have a new husband to keep me occupied!

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I have mixed opinions about it. I love it when things are going well and there are no problems. I hate it when I get stressed and people are pulling me in different directions. I just want to be married to the man of my dreams already!

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So far, I've loved the wedding planning.

I'm very organized and have taken care of a lot of things already.

Plus, I'm not one to shop around a whole lot - I bought the first gown I tried on - I knew it was 'the one' right away. We booked the first reception site we saw, etc. So, it's not like I've spent a lot of time shopping around for the things I need/want.

This website has been invaluable - I've gotten so many great ideas....can't imagine planning without it!

I know things may 'heat up' as we get closer to our wedding date, but it's been a wonderful experience so far!