Poll: Living with your FH...

Original post by CubanBride

Sep 13, 2004 08:08 AM

EricaOT Posted: Sep 13, 2004 12:02 PM

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I do sleep at my FH place quite often, at least 4 times a week, however, I don't live there. For some reason this is more acceptable to my parents and his, then living together before marriage....go figure

JacnRob729 Posted: Sep 13, 2004 12:06 PM

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we're not really sure yet.....we both live at home now, but when we get an apartment---im dont think im going to move in officially till after the wedding...not sure though

goingtobemrs Posted: Sep 13, 2004 12:10 PM

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I was petrified of telling my parents we were moving in together before being engaged or married. They actually took it well. But now, we are moving in their house for a few years after we get married...I asked if we can when we got engaged to start saving sooner and they said NO, not until we are married. Silly...but I guess in their eyes, if they don't see it firsthand it is ok us living together before marriage.

LIPrincess00 Posted: Sep 13, 2004 12:19 PM

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We just closed on our house 9/1 and I wanted to get in and start setting things up, so we just started living together.

9.17.04bride Posted: Sep 13, 2004 12:32 PM

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We moved in together 5 months after we met!

laudipop Posted: Sep 13, 2004 02:04 PM

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We've been living together for 3 years, dating for 5. Living together is a huge adjustment (especially if you're old like me and you're used to living alone!). I definitely wouldn't want to marry someone without knowing if we could stand all the day-in, day-out stress of living together.

RobNette Posted: Sep 13, 2004 04:42 PM

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We've been together for 3 years, and lived together for 2 of those years.
I WOULDN'T HAVE IT ANY OTHER WAY!
Some things you just don't want to be surprised with after you sign the contract, you know?

I'm glad I know my honey's habits good and bad..and we've had time to really know what we are getting into.

There are other things we've 'saved' for when we are married...but knowing who leaves there underwear on the floor all the time is not one of them!