Poll - Who's needy?

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Posted by MikeandJess

I'm totally the needy one, although if I'm on LIW too long and he feels like he's being ignored he whines. I swear I'm going to be such a great mom, I have so much experience with FH

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I know how you feel. I actually have two kids! FH and our dog! Sometimes I even have to punish them for acting up and fighting with each other!

I can be sometimes, but he is always in my a$$ for something. He was a honeymoon baby maybe that's why he's like that.

he is without a doubt. I'm independant to the point of fault sometimes, I think.
I'm a very social person but I also need my solitude a good part of the time. I think that was the hardest adjustment when we moved in together, I was so used to living alone and it took a lot of work on both of our parts to find middle ground. He hates to be alone and would rather we do everything together - sometimes it makes me nuts!!!

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Posted by MayBride08

he is without a doubt. I'm independant to the point of fault sometimes, I think.
I'm a very social person but I also need my solitude a good part of the time. I think that was the hardest adjustment when we moved in together, I was so used to living alone and it took a lot of work on both of our parts to find middle ground. He hates to be alone and would rather we do everything together - sometimes it makes me nuts!!!

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I like my alone time too - he's definitely the needy one. Sometimes it drives me batty too.

I bet we're going to have the exact same adjustment you did...

Ehhhhhh - neither of us. Or maybe both of us....?

We both have our moments. If I had to pick I'd say that I am, I guess?

I don't think either of us are too bad...
We're both just as equally needy and clingy that it's not really an issue!
Although there is that certain time of the month where I am a complete baby and I'm THE most clingy, needy person EVER!!!

FH takes this one! I am super independant, he likes to have me with him as much as possible,,, but can you blame him???

we both have our moments lol

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

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Posted by MayBride08

he is without a doubt. I'm independant to the point of fault sometimes, I think.
I'm a very social person but I also need my solitude a good part of the time. I think that was the hardest adjustment when we moved in together, I was so used to living alone and it took a lot of work on both of our parts to find middle ground. He hates to be alone and would rather we do everything together - sometimes it makes me nuts!!!

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I like my alone time too - he's definitely the needy one. Sometimes it drives me batty too.

I bet we're going to have the exact same adjustment you did...

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yeah its difficult at first. I mean, we've known each other for over ten years, so he knows my personality, but he was still starting to take it personally. I just had to be upfront with him and kind of use some tough love to get him to be more independent.

I'll say we're both semi-needy, we're usually on the same page at the same time which is good. But I wouldn't say either of us are clingy at all to each other!!!! But we do definitely need each other

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Posted by MayBride08

yeah its difficult at first. I mean, we've known each other for over ten years, so he knows my personality, but he was still starting to take it personally. I just had to be upfront with him and kind of use some tough love to get him to be more independent.

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Oh man, you could be me!

Everytime I need alone time now - he takes it personally. Sometimes I just want to stay in, read a book and have a glass of wine....

Oh man! Did you guys fight a lot???? FH is a lot more sensitive than me, I hate hurting his feelings!

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse

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Posted by MayBride08

yeah its difficult at first. I mean, we've known each other for over ten years, so he knows my personality, but he was still starting to take it personally. I just had to be upfront with him and kind of use some tough love to get him to be more independent.

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Oh man, you could be me!

Everytime I need alone time now - he takes it personally. Sometimes I just want to stay in, read a book and have a glass of wine....

Oh man! Did you guys fight a lot???? FH is a lot more sensitive than me, I hate hurting his feelings!

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haha yeah it seems like we are in the same situation. we've been living together for almost a year and sometimes we still do fight. actually one of the best things that happened to help this was him getting an xbox for christmas, hes so into it that he doesnt mind that im doing my own thing - go figure!!