Poll....How many others have you....

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Neither is he though...we were not very *innocent* then I guess

I have to say though, I am kinda glad....I think you have to know for sure what you don't want in order to know what you really want.

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Posted by HearzBellz

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Neither is he though...we were not very *innocent* then I guess

I have to say though, I am kinda glad....I think you have to know for sure what you don't want in order to know what you really want.

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Same here, and I completely agree- I dated someone for 7 yrs and 1 of the biggest reasons why we broke up is b/c I was his first and a man is a man- they need to explore- so I am so happy we got that out of our systems!!! No regrets and no wonders!

I've had my fun. Let's leave it at that

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Posted by Butterflybride

I wish that DH had been my one and only. Can't change the past though

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I agree with that...I am jealous of the people who can say that their DH was their first

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No regrets

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Posted by melissaandsean

I've had my fun. Let's leave it at that

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Could not have said it better myself!!!

I am really suprised how many 1's and 2's there are!! Good for you guys!!!

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I am really suprised how many 1's and 2's there are!! Good for you guys!!!

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I think it's just that the 1's and 2's are the only ones are coming out and posting their numbers, that's why we're seeing more of those...

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Posted by Goldi1021

And if your numbers are more than 2 or 3, does that make you a terrible person?

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Absolutely not, IMO...which is why I'm wondering why only the 1's and 2's are the majority posting....

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Posted by Ladybug63

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Posted by johnsae

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Posted by heidla

Wow don't I feel like a slut!!! 5-8 for me.

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honey, you're a virgin compared to me!

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I here that! I cant believe how many 1's & 2's there are.

Guess I'm just a big ol trollop

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I'll join you with that!

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Posted by JimmysBride

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Posted by Goldi1021

And if your numbers are more than 2 or 3, does that make you a terrible person?

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Absolutely not, IMO...which is why I'm wondering why only the 1's and 2's are the majority posting....

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Perhaps it is felt that they will be free from judgement. Personally, I don't think it is anyone's business how many people I have slept with. Do I wish FH was my first? No. Do I wish I was his? No. My rationale? He sowed his oats, I sowed mine. No wondering what we may or may not have missed out on. No more BS. We are done and content with our choices. I respect all of the ladies who made THIER choices but I would hardly brand myself a slut or a trollop because my number is higher than 2. I am also about an average of 10 years older than MANY of the brides here. If FH was my first considering we met last March, I would have been one terribly frustrated 33 year old. Things change when you hit 30 - that is for DARN SURE!!!

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Posted by Goldi1021

And if your numbers are more than 2 or 3, does that make you a terrible person?

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OF COURSE!

jk

TA: It doens;'t matter. Everyone has a different lifestyle, and also I think on the whole the 5+ or the double digiters are probably older than the 1's and 2's. Had the 1's and 2's not found our Dh's so young, we'd be right up there with you

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Posted by heidla

Wow don't I feel like a slut!!! 5-8 for me.

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Me too! Can count on one hand

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Posted by SuzBride

FH is my one and only :)

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Ditto

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Posted by marymoon
and also I think on the whole the 5+ or the double digiters are probably older than the 1's and 2's. Had the 1's and 2's not found our Dh's so young, we'd be right up there with you

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Nope... im not much older than the 1s and 2s... just went away to college and had my fun

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Posted by CaCRmr

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Posted by SuzBride

FH is my one and only :)

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Same here and I'm his one and only!

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same here

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Posted by neeniebean86

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Posted by marymoon
and also I think on the whole the 5+ or the double digiters are probably older than the 1's and 2's. Had the 1's and 2's not found our Dh's so young, we'd be right up there with you

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Nope... im not much older than the 1s and 2s... just went away to college and had my fun

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I met my dh at 17 and I am now 33 and he was my 1st.

lets just say ive sowed my wild oats.

im not in the highest and im not in the lowest

I will confess.....

I was old when I lost it(24) and it was great!! Had three O's that day!! yup!

AFter I had a one night stand with I guy I had loved in my late teens after I bumped into him one night and it wasnt worth it! I mean it was bad(poor guy) lasted a few minutes hahahaha. So I didnt miss much with him when we were dating cause it wouldnt have been good.

Then I had a semiserious relationship that lasted a year and then my FI.

So I say a total of 3 1/2 is that ok?

Or do I have to say 4 including my fiance?

:) PS I dont regret not waiting to be married and I dont care about him either although I think his numbers are is the 6-8, its fine by me.
:)