So, I invited a lot of friends to the wedding and was actually a little unpleasantly surprised by the ones who declined. But, what surprised me even MORE were the ones who were engaged themselves, and then DIDN'T SEND ME AN INVITE TO THEIR WEDDING! And bare in mind, these were friends. That happened with 2 of my guests. I just can't help feeling totally insulted. For one of them, the wedding was last week and for another one, her wedding is forthcoming. I seriously hope it rains all over her gown
missexcited
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Cant narrow it down to one right vent right now. All the guests are annoying me. Makes me want to wish diarrhea on some of them
jgl
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Just because you invited them, doesnt mean they have to invite you. As we all begin to see as we plan our weddings - its quite costly and there are so many things to factor in. There may have been a reason that you were not invited to theirs, even though they may have wanted to. I can understand you being upset, but to wish them rain - not so nice
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Just because you invited them, doesnt mean they have to invite you. As we all begin to see as we plan our weddings - its quite costly and there are so many things to factor in. There may have been a reason that you were not invited to theirs, even though they may have wanted to. I can understand you being upset, but to wish them rain - not so nice
I understand what you're saying, but one of them specifically told me she was going to invite me and the other told me he was having 300 guests and I heard from a friend who went that it was packed with college friends (I'm a college friend) So, i just kinda makes me wonder
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Posted by jgl
Just because you invited them, doesnt mean they have to invite you. As we all begin to see as we plan our weddings - its quite costly and there are so many things to factor in. There may have been a reason that you were not invited to theirs, even though they may have wanted to. I can understand you being upset, but to wish them rain - not so nice
I understand what you're saying, but one of them specifically told me she was going to invite me and the other told me he was having 300 guests and I heard from a friend who went that it was packed with college friends (I'm a college friend) So, i just kinda makes me wonder
well its a different story if she told you she was inviting you. That was wrong on her part.
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maybe they couldnt afford to have friends, just family or wanted a private ceremony. I wouldnt wish rain on any bride, even if i wasnt invited to her wedding.....you know you wouldnt have wanted someone to say that about you
kslmbuggie
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yes, def not nice to wish rain on anyone!! maybe you werent as close of friends as you thought?
little34
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That stinks....maybe they were very limited in the amount of people they could invite...I know that is our dilemma....we are very limited in the friends we can invite.
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I felt the same with with some of my 'friends,' one of them didn't invite me and to be honest, it was kind of a wake up call on my part, I now realize that she does not consider me a friend, and probably hasn't for awhile now, we used to be close, but other peoples drama got in the way.
the other person is having a SUPER big wedding, told people she was inviting me and didn't. I really wanted to go, but now i can but that money towards something else.
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I hear you. One is not coming b/c she is on bed rest b/c she is prego. Totally understand. The other said her FMIL is having a engagment party for them. They already had one! Also, all of our friends will be at my wedding. Also, I come to find out from my other friend who said (about the gril not coming to my wedding) Her mother is making her invite people they dont know and his mother id doing the same. So I dont think you and nick are going to be able to be invited. Um what? I dont get people! You know what we now save $ on their plate and a gift forthem. Lets pray for rain!!!!!!!!!!!!
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its possible that they couldnt invite you for whatever reason, and then felt that they couldn't go and attend your wedding because they couldn't invite you.
or... they just arent good friends
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i forgot to tell you, the first girl who didn't invite me, it rained on her day and i heard that there was a leak at the RH's chapel, and it was dripping on her BM and there was a puddle on the floor.
