I always have the WORST seamstress experiences! It's like they do not care how you feel. You tell them it's too loose, they say no it's not. You say it's too tight, they say no it's not!
You are paying them for a goddamn service - they should listen to you!!!!!!! I'll go with you - I have no patience for that kind of service! Do not feel bad speaking up. It's your dress, your money!