They found some cancer during her mamogram...yesterday she had an MRI, and it turned out to be bigger than they initially thought. They are hoping that she will only have to have a lumpectomy and not a masectomy...she asked yesterday if the surgery could wait until after my wedding, and she was assured it would be fine..I feel guilty that she is putting off anyting for me.Anyway, she is having her surgery on the 22nd..when I will already be on my honeymoon. They wont even know how serious this is until it is removed. I feel so badly I wont be here for her when she needs me...she is like a mother to me...she is my mom sister, my mom passed when I was 14, so she has been the mother figure in my life for so long..I feel so bad, and so guilty.