should I be nervous about this? we have our first class tomorrow night...
whats it like?
ErinC0119
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no dont be nervous. We did it we actually had a lot of fun with it. Are you doing an in home program?
MattandTricia07
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Don't be nervous. It really was a good experience.
We did the weekend one through the dioceses and it really wasn't bad at all.
Have fun!
B22
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no dont be nervous. We did it we actually had a lot of fun with it. Are you doing an in home program?
No. We're going to some church in manhattan every tuesday night for an hour & 1/2...
MrsQ-in2007
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Don't be nervous at all!
We took ours in one weekend (a Friday night and Saturday day). Our host couple was really great (Ernie and Gaby) and they just went over the five main topics and at the end of each one we had to to a little worksheet by ourselves and then sit back with our FI's and discuss our answers with each other to see how we responded. In our Pre Cana, no one was made to answer any questions in front of the group and no one was singled out or anything.
Good luck! We liked ours.
B22
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Don't be nervous at all!
We took ours in one weekend (a Friday night and Saturday day). Our host couple was really great (Ernie and Gaby) and they just went over the five main topics and at the end of each one we had to to a little worksheet by ourselves and then sit back with our FI's and discuss our answers with each other to see how we responded. In our Pre Cana, no one was made to answer any questions in front of the group and no one was singled out or anything.
Good luck! We liked ours.
we live together and I'm scared that it is frowned upon. FH doesn't have MY address so we could say we DONT live together..
or should we just be honest
ErinC0119
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We live together and we chose to say we didnt live together cuz I heard a story someone did say they lived together and then the church wouldnt marry them.
B22
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We live together and we chose to say we didnt live together cuz I heard a story someone did say they lived together and then the church wouldnt marry them.
yeah, he never changed his address when he moved in back in september (to keep the cheaper NJ car insurance) so we figure, he doesnt have residence at my place.... we jjust hang OUT alot!!
lol
Strings22
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No there is no reason to be nervous. My FH and I actually enjoyed it... we learned some new things, tips and shared a few laughs. You'll be fine
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Posted by ErinC0119
We live together and we chose to say we didnt live together cuz I heard a story someone did say they lived together and then the church wouldnt marry them.
yeah, he never changed his address when he moved in back in september (to keep the cheaper NJ car insurance) so we figure, he doesnt have residence at my place.... we jjust hang OUT alot!!
lol
That never even came up at my precana! Just you put down your address and have him put down 'his' address.
